...that are my boyfriends. Is it weird to keep this stuff?
2007-02-28 22:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is kinda weird but sometimes guys forget about it. Remember that males arent as sentimental as women so letters might mean nothing to him.
2007-02-28 22:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....it's really not. There may be a time in the future that you'll not feel the need to hang onto them any longer.
My first love was when I was a sophomore in high school. He was very intense and wrote me poems all the time. I kept all 56 poems in a shoe box and didn't toss them out until I was married with one child in my mid 20's.
Just wait until you feel okay about tossing that stuff. I'm 41, remarried, and just this year tossed out my pictures and things related to my ex-husband. This is normal so don't fret.
2007-02-28 22:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont open it dont read it it is only going to hurt you
You are the girl in his life now
No it is not weird they had good times together just like you two have good times together he is keeping it for the memory doesnt mean that he will take them back but he will always have feelings for them just like you still have feelings for all your exes
2007-02-28 22:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what, he has pictures. No it's not weird. Stop being nosey. Maybe revisit this subject when he puts a ring on your finger, until then mind your own things.
2007-02-28 22:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wierd at all, most guys has that "ex-box".
I was stupid enough to write this letter for my ex once: we where friends before we dated, and i knew about his box &i still wrote that stupid letter-years after we broke up i still wanted to get my letter back from him &tear it up!!
its awful being in the "ex-box"-LOL
2007-02-28 22:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discovering such things hurts like hell. We want to think we are the only one in his or her life (also memories).. But it doesn't work like that...
Give him his privacy and maybe one day, if it still bothers u discuss it with him and see why he is maintaining them...
2007-02-28 22:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are just memories of his life. Some people keep them others throw them away. Don't take it personal.
2007-02-28 22:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not....those are life time memories.....you may not be around for ever.....perhaps in his golden years he will sit all alone and go through this box and remember each person and what they meant to him in his life.....why would you want someone to destroy things from their past.....think about it and stop snooping
2007-02-28 22:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird by the way i can be your friend
2007-02-28 22:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋