Why do a lot of women have trouble understanding their man's work demands?

Question

A lot of women want their man to make a decent living, but get snippy when he's called away to work unexpectedly, has less time than he used to, or is too tired to be romantic after work. What is the thought process behind this particular unreasonable demand?

As I expected, a lot of the answers indicate that the woman will often blame their man for what his employer does to both him and his woman. I appreciate the honesty of those answers, though.

Answer 1

There is no easy answer here. Girls suck, bascially. I am one, so I can say this. All I know is you've gotta make it up to her when youre called away. I know, it may not be your fault at all, but when you do come back, bring her a gift. Flowers, a cute necklace or something. Just let her know that you didnt want to be away from her and you miss her as much as she misses you. She gets mad because she wants to be with you, its not as personal as it seems.

Answer 2

The main thing which sticks out here, is you calling it an "unreasonable demand.” If you have a career that causes you to be called away to work unexpectedly, then you need to make this clear in the BEGINNING of the relationship. Some women may believe that you are cheating on them. It's hard to answer this one because you haven't said if you are dating or in a relationship. I'm sorry, but I do have to chuckle at the female being irritated because the man in too tired. It always seems to be the male complaining about this issue. Therefore you should count your blessings that you have a woman that wants you to be romantic so often. The "thought process" behind this...I don't know. There are many reasons. But as I said earlier, you need to explain your work demands in the BEGINNING of your relationship. She needs to be assured that your work requires this of you, NOT that you WANT it that way. Best wishes....

Answer 3

Societal norms administration the perspectives that many human beings have, yet no longer all. If a guy demands that his destiny significant different be a virgin, i might want to haven't any problem with that. it truly is a own wish and he has the right to terminate a relationship in reaction to this if he fairly needs to. A women human beings, then, has a similar correct to terminate a relationship depending on the availability (it truly is no longer fairly the most suitable note, yet inspite of) of marriage. Have a sturdy day! Lbee

Answer 4

which is more important,,work or wife,,in a marriage its give and take but if the time spent together isnt wasted then some compromise could be reached,,,quality not quantity but if either party feels unloved,unwanted,devalued then something must be done to rectify it,,,,,we all want the good life but without someone to share it with?????whats the point!

Answer 5

I am completley supportive of my husband's career.
I think the question should be Why do men have trouble understanding their woman's work demands?
Why do men throw a fit when there woman makes more money then them?

Answer 6

Because a lot of women are free loaders aka stay at home mom's who haven't done a days work in their entire lives.

Answer 7

the same as when a man doesnt understand a stay at home moms demands. they want the house clean dinner made and kids taken care of then wonder why a ******** is out of the question.....cuts both ways huh

Answer 8

Selfishness.

Answer 9

That is a good question. I'm not sure of the answer, but my question to you is why're you hiding behind a scuba mask??

Answer 10

Because they have been made to understand that's how men cheat. They cannot tell if it is genuine all the time. In other words, it is hard to trust completely.