I have an ex girlfriend who i was with for three years and i am no longer in love with her but i do still love her. And i know she feels the same but the thing is we had a nasty breakup, but i have moved on and im with different girls but i still seem to always think about her and dreams about her. Is this normal. I mean is she going throught this too. Please give me some answers, but only from people who has experienced this before.
2007-02-28 22:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex until you "let go" of her on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-03-01 06:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how long you two have been broken up but in my experience of the same thing it is normal. I have been broken up with my ex fiancee for over a year now. I still love him, but in a different way now. I even have a boyfriend and have moved on. But sometimes he manages to creep his way back into my dreams. All I have to say is you never forget someon you loved. And I dont believe that you actually stop loving them. I think that all the people we love like that stay with us for the rest of our lives. So now I dont worry about those dreams.
2007-02-28 22:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 18 yrs.My first true love moved thousands of miles away from me right in the middle of our relationship.I dreamed about him for yrs.The last one I had about him he was laying in a casket and everybody was mourning over him.You're dreams let you feel their presence because you still love them and miss them.And it eases the pain of not having them with you. You'll always love her,and think about her as I still to this day love Rick,and think about him every once in a while.Were only human.When you have feelings for someone they never end.And yes I'm sure she's going through the same thing.The saying goes.It's better to have loved and loss than not love at all.It's a learning process we all go through
2007-02-28 23:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married again and happilly but divorced from ex wife 5 years ago. Well over her but I still have dreams of her. I think it is just uncontrollable images in our sub conscious when we are in a deep sleep. Don't worry about them they are normal.
2007-02-28 22:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be going through this as well. Depends on her as well. You probably do have strong feelings for her still deep down and your heart is trying to tell you this. Try talking to her maybe. Maybe you might be able to become friends and tell each other about what's going on and how you both feel for each other.
2007-02-28 22:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by PWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and make the relationship work because theirs one of you that still love her with her and set a side your differences and get back.girls love men write poems to them.Or just be friends.
2007-02-28 23:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a site like http://IhadADreamLastNight.com will help you out. There is a lot of content regarding dreams there.
2007-03-03 14:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by expertdreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This mean that you are obsessed by this girl.I do not think she loves you anymore otherwise you would be together.You should try be honest to yourself and accept that will she is not for you.
2007-02-28 22:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess d break up was miss understandings,n till now u love her,So ,y r u wasting ur time with this new girl whom u say ur new love???u r just fooling urself.Go n try to know what she feels about u now??b4 its 22222 late.
2007-02-28 22:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no longer with her but I am in 3rd year thinking to her every moment.
2007-02-28 22:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by ta2aa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋