Relationship is falling apart, what does it mean when a guy is distant, cold, not affectionate, he says he loves me but it's he just doesnt treat me the same as it used to be. All I do is try to be good to him & treat him how I'd like to be treated. Maybe I should let him go, but why is it so hard? Is this what happeneds after you've been with someone for a few years? No?
2007-02-28 21:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by idk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its not right. I'm going through the same thing now and i have a choice to make, so do you. Do we take this, or leave it? Good luck with your choice....
2007-02-28 22:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when your boyfriend is giving you the cold shoulder, then something is wrong... it might be about you or about something that's really important to him. try making him feel that he's not alone. i mean show him that you're there to help him... or if you feel that you're his problem, talk to him. you've been together for a long time already so i guess you two can talk seriously about this matter. ask him what's wrong and what he wants to happen. when the magic is gone, its just so hard to take it back. maybe the love he has for you is... sadly, falling apart already. just go and talk to him. try settling things down. good luck!
2007-03-01 06:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is worrying about something in his life which he feels he cant tell you or they could be someone else
I would say just give him his space let him work it out in time he will come to you and tell you that either this was wrong or that there is someone else
The other thing that you could do is ask him about it just say to him that you don't want to fight you just want to know and that he doesn't have to answer you right away you will wait but you want to know this will ensure that there will be no fighting and it will give him time to think and maybe he will change
2007-03-01 06:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. You need to move on. Sometimes people just grow apart. Good luck and keep your chin up.
2007-03-01 06:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't interested in you anymore. I'm sorry it's hard to take, but you need to end it soon before you endure anymore heartache, like him cheating or hurting you physically.
2007-03-01 06:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but yes, he's getting bored. i am feeling exactly e same way now.. my bf is really sweet but i dont feel e same abt US anymore, we've been dating since 2005 n i used to think i cant do without him but im wrong, i just cant live without him but i dont like him anymore, its that kind of feeling ul have.
im really sorry
2007-03-01 06:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋