Ok theres this girl i like and before i told her i liked her we were cool but after that she stopped talking to me. I really cared for her and i wanted to know why. This might sound bad (i thought it was for the greater good) but i cracked her myspace and read all her messages. It turns out this girl is holding inside a lot of emotions. Shes(emo) got the feeling of loneliness and has had guys mistreat her and take advantage of her for the longest of time. She plays a game called habbo which im assuming is her "escape" to be friendly to people. I really want to tell her i really care for her and want to help "pull her out of this emotional state" but i dont know by which way of doing it.
any advice would really help
2007-02-28 23:04:58 · 4 answers · asked by 281 Playa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cracked into her myspace and read her messages? You are a jerk, if she wanted to tell you this stuff she would have. And she definitely isn't going to talk to you if she finds out what you did. You are so low for doing this, you douchebag.
2007-02-28 23:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she got scared after you told her your true feelings since she had some bad experiences in the past.Really in this case all you can do is Show her how you feel.Telling her wont cut it if shes been hurt because shell run, run , run.It wont matter ,shell never know that you are really a "good" guy.You will have to be extremely patient. It could be a lot of work,so you need to decide if you are up to it. I mean how much do you care? anyway, the best thing is to try being her friend first and let her know that you are always there to talk, or help her , or whatever. And make sure you do it to or else it will confirm her thoughts that men arent nice or that they will continue to hurt her, Eventually , you will prove that that isnt the case and she wont be able to help falling for you. Just remember one thing... whatever you do DO NOT PUSH, that is the worst thing to do ,even though youll want to. You sound like a good man , so if you truely are, things will happen naturally. Good luck, ALANNA
2007-03-01 07:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her out for a coffee or lunch as friends. Talk to her about your own feelings and what's going on with you and try to help her loosen up enough to open up to you. I think it's great that you care enough to want to help her. Be there for her as a friend and try to start getting her to talk to you slowly. Hopefully you will develop a sense of trust with her so she can feel comfortable enough to talk to you. Good luck. She needs a positive influence in her life right now.
2007-03-01 07:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should get to know her a little better than ask her out once y get to know her u can help her out more but don't tell her how u know about her pass that u might wont to keep on the DL
2007-03-01 07:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋