i am just only 18 yrs old and i have been in a serious relationship.. i love my gf so much & she loves me also a lot. we've been so long but theres a guy who is trying 2 break our relationship. because the guy also love my girlfriend so much & he is doing everything to destroy my personality with my gf. i feel so bad about it!!! i don't want to seperate with my gf. i want 2 be married with her....... he is doing everything to get my gf from me. he is doing everything to stay away my gf from me... i do a lot of things 2 not stay her from me but i am very hopeless because my identity with my gf is already destroyed ...... i cannot affor 2 lose her....
2007-02-28 23:15:04 · 14 answers · asked by JP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her to choose, and abide by her decision.
2007-02-28 23:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your gf you should trust her that no matter how hard this other guy is trying to do to steal her from you, she won't let it bother your relationship. If she really loves you, just have faith in her and strengthen your relationship more and closer so that no wall can ever separate the two of you.
2007-03-01 08:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. This is your first day isn't it? Welcome..
I know all this seems very important to you now, but you are young with your whole future ahead. So look forward. You can afford to lose your girlfriend if she would be influenced by another guy away from you.
Be strong.
2007-03-01 07:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with "gary h" the first answerer. if there is this big wall now, then it's her call and you'll have to respect her decision then you two will be free from all the mindboggling and emotional rollercoaster you're going through because if it goes on like that then it's not worth it. somebody has to make a decision and somebody has to respect it. best of luck.
2007-03-01 07:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by terra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your girlfriend and tell her that she needs to ignore this guy and walk away. If she loves you, she will respect you!
You are protecting her and defending your relationship, if she gets mad about that, then maybe she isnt the girl for you.
2007-03-01 07:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound to me like this is what guys do. Are you sure his interest is your gf and not you? Relax...don't get your feathers ruffled. How is your gf reacting to all of this? What will be will be...don't act or react. Keep your dignity...all will be revealed.
2007-03-01 07:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did the other guy come from? Did he used to date your girl? Have you talked to her about how she feels about it?
I would say just talk to her, tell her you love her but this other guy is really hurting you. Tell her how you really feel, ask how she feels. If she needs time, give it to her. Just be as supportive as you can be, she is probably just as confused as you are.
2007-03-01 07:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, for God's sake! Find the man, talk to him, settle the problem, beat his head to a bloody pulp if he doesn't stop bothering you. If you can't beat him. Find a gang, and beat him! If you can't find a gang, run him over with a car.
...yyyou get my point?
2007-03-01 07:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
propose to her cause if u get married and the guy trys anything wit her sue him
2007-03-01 07:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by cass1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to that guy..... tell him you own that girl already and you love each other.. and tell him to be a real man.. she's damn gay of doing talks to your girl... if he won't talk to your friends and put some of your fingers and hands and feet on his face... your the real man, and you have the right coz he's doing no good to you and on your girl... kick his face and *** dude! don't let him screw you to your girl..... kick him immediately! he's a looser!
2007-03-01 07:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by d'g0odMan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋