I would like to hear some sugestions to surprise my wife. Both romantic and hot&spicy answers are welcome.
Please do keep within reasonable respect.
Before you make your sugestions take this into consideration:
1 - We do have an interesting sex life and are pleased with it;
2 - I do make dinner oftern and bring home flowers often;
3 - I do book the occasional weekend out on surprise...
Now lets hear those suggestions. I'm most interested in suggestions from you ladies...
2007-02-28 23:08:32 · 14 answers · asked by night 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok... now to make it harder:
1. Already going to dance classes with her;
2. We do walk, run and go on bycicle every now and then... followed by a nice shower and some hot (yet tender) action...
3. I do go shopping with her often and do surpriese her with gifts or a decent going out every now and then;
4. I do write love cards every now and then;
5. I do make small surprises at home every now and then (like preparing a special relaxing bath)...
We both do take care of each other, both in small and big details...
Keep coming those ideas though.
:P
2007-02-28 23:47:29 · update #1
if you are the one for big romantic gestures then you could do similar to what you do already OR you so go for the simply way sometimes its the small personal things that really make gush and fall in love with my man again (not saying that we don't like the flowers and restaraunts cos we do) but put some thought into what she likes Say write her a lovely poem watch her fav girly movie with her maybe if she likes dancing but you've said no take her to salsa dancing or another sexy dance class. or as your married why don't you make a lovely proposal again or buy her an eternity ring. theres lots of things you can do that only you will know about her hobbys, interests. ask her friend what she'd like. maybe shes spoke to her as you know we do. hope it goes well whatever you do i'm sure she'll love it. Only 1 thing left to say and that she is 1 LUCKY lady. wish there was more like you (wish you could talk to my man he needs to be more romantic)
2007-02-28 23:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by curiouskel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things like this are so tricky because it really does depend on the person. A spa weekend would bore me to tears for instance but here is what I would love. Some are money no object and some are more realistic.
1) A hot air balloon flight
2) A box at the ballet/Shakespeare's Globe
3) A day in bed with snacks, drinks, the papers and more!
4) A picnic in a beautiful location
5) A cycle ride with my partner to a lovely little b&b and wonderful fruit de mer delivered to the room.
6) A meeting with one of my living heroes
I think that will do - good luck.
2007-02-28 23:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Book a night away at a nice hotel with spa facilities and book the two of you a body massage. Then retire to the room and wait for the fireworks! alternately, a cheaper version is for you to surprise your wife at home with the bath already run, filled with her favourite fragrances. Give her a glass of wine, wash her back, etc., and let her soap in the bath. When she gets out, you dry her with a towel and let her lie on the bed and give her a massage. Not a sexual massage at the start, but it is lovely to have one's back massaged and the backs of one's legs... then get round to the interesting bits. Massage is a very under-rated way of spicing up the sex life and it is utterly luxurious and wonderful and unselfish when your partner does this for you.
Have fun! I'm sure you will get many good suggestions but your wife will be surprised, delighted and feel utterly spoilt rotten if you give her a good relaxing sensual massage. She will love you to bits for this.
2007-02-28 23:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy her a puppy - lol
When she walks in be in drag - lol
Ok now lets be a bit more serious when she comes in from work or whatever put a blindfold on her and take her on a magical mystery tour. This could be to anywhere really but has to be a powerful end like first place you met/a romantic weekend away/ a picnic on a mountain...depends where you live that one, etc.
Is there anyone she has ever talked about lots a longlost friend or family member you could try and find them, she would love you for that.
You could both go to Anne Summers together?
2007-02-28 23:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alot of ladies love clothes, and nice outfits. Buy her a cute outfit, and tak her somewere really special. A nice romantic place, not dinner, somewere fun, and exciting. Where a nice outfit and look good for her, and give her hugs and kisses or whatever. That will be really nice.
Or you can surprize your wife by giving her an lap dance. Lolz, I'm not kidding. When she comes to the bedroom, you look all hot and everything, and let her sit down and give her an nice sexy dance!!!!! She'll be very surprized about that.
Whatever you like, or decide!!!! Well, bye, bye. :)
2007-02-28 23:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Book a spa weekend together - some places have rooms where you can receive massages at the same time - relaxing and luxurious
2007-02-28 23:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a love letter pointing out the top ten reasons you love her, and put in a little explanation for each one.
Then mail the letter by snail mail. I guarantee you she'll melt!
2007-02-28 23:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lady_Lawyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before she gets home from work, lay a trail of pink rose petals leading to ure bedroom, and be ready on the bed, nekked, when she comes home...repeat and enjoy
2007-02-28 23:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by dukemaskot23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mirrors on the bedroom ceiling and a sex swing.
2007-02-28 23:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go skiing, bike riding, stuff like that than go to a realllllllly fancy food place for a romantic dinner
2007-02-28 23:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by cass1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋