I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her
2007-02-28 17:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is why I am going to keep her until one of us dies. When I am 65 years old, I can have sex with my to-be-wife instead of paying money to have sex with whores and get STD's. Good plan. eh? No, I am not in love with her. I will not let myself fall in love with her. If I do fall in love with her and she dies, I will be ever so depressed. That is suppose to be girlfriend or to-be-wife in the 1st sentence, we haven't married yet. I plan to marry her. I want to be with her until one of us dies so I can have sex with her. I am her true love, but too bad, I don't love her though. I don't have any feelings for her.
2007-02-28 17:40:31 · update #1
WOW!
You obviously have some kind of feelings for her (whether you want to admit it or not).
May be seek help, because you are just toying with the girl and as your friend she deserves more respect and honesty than you are offering with her right now.
So to answer- No what you are doing is not right.
How would you feel if you were in her shoes???? Think of it that way.
2007-03-01 00:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too fearful of being hurt to ever take a chance on letting yourself fall in love. You probably have a very low self image and an even lower image of others. Because you are not worth loving in your eyes and nobody else is worth loving you avoid relationship.
Psychologically it is termed as being dismissive evasive in relationships. The only way you will change is if you can improve your self image by recognizing the good points in yourself and allowing yourself to see the good points in others and appreciate them.
You are intentionally being negative in your writing to show that you hate yourself and others even though you do not believe it.
For the sake of your girlfriend, please get some help.
2007-03-01 03:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be one of the most pathetic losers on the entire planet, hopefully for that poor woman's sake you will die before the sun comes up.
2007-03-01 02:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you be happy for a man to treat your sister like this? or even your daughter? you are a #####! how can you abuse someones love like that?
you
2007-03-01 02:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!! To your question, absolutely positively NO!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-03-01 02:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by just breathing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-01 02:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋