Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

me and my boyfriend are planing to get married we have been toghter for 3 years and have been in a long distance relationship. he has only talked to my parents once and now he really wants me to talk to them about our marrige plans. I know I have to talk to my parents the thing is that he has a child he is raising and my dad does not know about that. my mom does but never seems to want to talk about the situation. iit is really important for my boyfriend for me to talk to my parents i just do not know how to approach the situation. this issue is creating alot of tension in our relationship he just feels that i am avoiding talking to my parents because i am not sure of what i want. You could say i am my parents pride and joy. i will be the first to finish college and they have diffrent expectation from me.

I need some advice on how to apporach the situation.

2007-02-28 18:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by chia 2 in Singles & Dating

i am single & feel terrible lonleness.but i dont want to be home breaker.it is too hard to forget many good memory.he is so kind to me and it ia all i want a friend.(i know right way,just help me,pleeeeeeese)

2007-02-28 18:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by roze 1 in Singles & Dating

In Camelot, King Arthur sings how to handle a women. Then a wise old man told him the secret, a secret known by every women. What is it?

2007-02-28 18:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by fordtblb 1 in Singles & Dating

how come it's always up to the guys to go up to the girls?

2007-02-28 18:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a relation with this girl from last 6 months or more, we have two side of the story, good part is the love n care, she cares and loves me a lot, she keep calling me and ask if I had food or not e.t.c. we fight a lot, come back to normal after few minutes, whenever she is away she calls n tell me that she is missing me and wantd to be with me, i mean jus the perfect love story. The other part is she has a friend, a very good friend now he is abroad, they are really good friend from last 2 years, he helped her a lot in her ups and down, but that guy doesnt like me much, even she sometime hides things from me related to him, i traced a chat conversation of them found that he abused me but she doesnt even askd him the reason, they exhcnage miss u everyday, they even exchange I love u one day too.

2007-02-28 18:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by p_t_r 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I opted to save for purchasing a home rather than an expensive wedding/ ring set. I wanted to shop around for possible ring bargains anyways though. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks! :]

2007-02-28 18:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by DLZ 2 in Weddings

when I first thought about it ..hell no! But the guy that ive been liking for how many months now..I found out that he's BI.. okay, so for a while there..I got sooo confused..seriously..i dont know what to do when i found out, seriously! ..i even looked at him differently from the day i found out...the thought about him going at it w/ a guy ..fck ..i didnt even wana think about it..thats just wrong.
after a few days..i kinda got over it ..lol. since i talk to him more often now..I actually think he flirts w/ me. lol! I dont even care if he;s Bi anymore... and plus.The thing im worried about now is should I tell him?????????????????????

2007-02-28 18:39:47 · 1 answers · asked by db 2 in Singles & Dating

who can give me the email address of Otto Muehl or how can I find it.... I am a friend of him

thanks

2007-02-28 18:38:54 · 1 answers · asked by S_M_A_R_T_Y 1 in Friends

If so, how do u show ur commitment?

2007-02-28 18:36:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you believe on this you can't gain nothing with no pain..do you agree? What this meant for example want to know the history or background of my boyfriend before tie the knot..any comments? Please share.

2007-02-28 18:33:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We're getting a lot of mixed answers and it's tought to find support groups. Are we just selfish in going with our guts? Or why unravel our lives to make his family' happy and complete?
All advice appreciated.

2007-02-28 18:32:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So here's how the convo basically went.
Her--"I've fallen for my best friend. Now I feel all weird and awkward and I dont know how to act because I dont want him to know I like him, because I know he doesnt like me."
Me-- "Well, maybe he does like you."
Her--"No. I know he doesnt. And now everytime I talk to him, if I say something stupid i feel real dumb, and think 'omg he probably thinks Im so stupid.'' So I said that it sounded like she was acting as if she just met him. As if he was some guy she really liked but didnt really know so she was nervous. I reminded her that this is her best friend and she should feel comfortable, but she just said "Its different now b/c I like him. And i feel weird b/c he doesnt like me." --------I dont know what to tell her to help her feel comfortable like she was before. I also think its weird that she suddenly developed feelings for him. They've known each other for two years. How can things suddenly change? If I understood, I think I could help

2007-02-28 18:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by Florida Gal 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been friends with this man for 9yrs. when i met him, he was married. from the time we have been friends til the present, there has always been "more" to the friendship. he has been divorced now for 4 years. we also now have 2 children together. but the friendship has never been given a title. there were even times he went his seperate way for awhile and dated someone. i let it go at first cuz he was just divorced and was really in a bad place. we even went so far as to try to be platonic--never worked--whether he was dating someone or not. he knows how i feel, knows what i want from him. has even told me he was in love with me too but couldn't be in an actual relationship cuz he don't want to hurt me and doesn't want to ruin or friendship which i think is pretty much ruined on the friendship level already. he has been seeing someone now a couple of months, but still professes his love to me. i can't take it anymore and am about to cut him out even tho i don't really want to.....

2007-02-28 18:30:55 · 17 answers · asked by niece612 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 18:30:44 · 14 answers · asked by france 1 in Singles & Dating

I get embarassed when I see white girls chasing down black guys. whats up with that anyway? the worst i saw was in england. are black guys really bigger and better?

2007-02-28 18:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by mariabianchi 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you a lesbian or a bisexual and have not told a soul?

2007-02-28 18:29:04 · 3 answers · asked by BONNIE 2 in Singles & Dating

when you're just a little plump?
i mean, its embarrassing right?

2007-02-28 18:28:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we went out for about 18months..its a long distance relationship..we never had any communication after a month dat we broke up..one night..he called me using private number..askin how am i doing....n tells me to wait for him bcoz 1 day he will be infront of me...calls me babe..n tells dat he loves me b4 hangin up da phone..now..its been almost a yr dat never heard from him...i had few relationships but didnt work...bcoz...my heart and my brain tells me dat i stil love him..even tho i tried so hard to forget him....

2007-02-28 18:28:43 · 14 answers · asked by worried 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I don't need opinions on the situation just the question....if my ex dumped me but not for anything I did....and he said he still likes me he just needed some space for awhile. Well I havent seen him in awhile but he's visiting this weekend...what should I do so that I'm not too pushy, desperate, but that he will realize that he wants to date again? I know I cant make him want to but what should I avoid...and what should I do?

2007-02-28 18:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been on two dates with this girl and we had a great time both nights. Nothing happened between us, but I think my gentlemanly manners gave her the assumption that I was more interested than I really am. She's totally a cool girl but I am not physically attracted to her.

What should I do? It's not like I can dump her... we're not even going out. But I don't want to dis her by not returning her calls/texts. Any ideas?

2007-02-28 18:26:38 · 22 answers · asked by duce 2 in Singles & Dating

can someone give me the sites for sending free e-cards for all occasions especially love cards.

2007-02-28 18:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have subtley grown to love him over the past 4 years. During this time we've had an on-and-off behind the scenes deep relationship with lots of meaning. We had a falling out where we both messed up, but now we're sorta 'secretly' back together. We both know we deeply love eachother. Super close, we talk, cry, and joke about life. We understand eachother in an endless, inevitable sort of way. Things have been rough between us, but now we are comfortable with eachother, forgiving, and caring. Now that I'm not afraid of losing him, I guess I'm scared that things will get boring. I'm used to hardly seeing him, with lots of intense passion the few times that we are alone. I guess I'm afraid of "falling out of love" now that I see him alot more often. should I find a way to create some distance? our realationship is still secret, especially considering he has a gilrfriend. Will I have to be a girlfriend? what are my obligations as a lover? Am I afraid of commitement? Is that unhealthy?

2007-02-28 18:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-28 18:22:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 weeks. He has Asperger's Syndrome. It's not too bad, he's just really into computers and a little bad at social situations.
We've known each other for 2 years, but only become friends recently (in the last 3-4 months). He's in year 12, and I'm in year 11.
He insists that he loves me, and I admittedly have said it back to him. (I know, I know, mistake on my part.) I don't think anyone can fall in love that fast, and I am not even sure I do love him (yet). Given time, maybe, but this is all going too fast. How do I tell him that?
Remember this is his first relationship and he fears rejection like the plague. Any help is appreciated. Thank you!

2007-02-28 18:21:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been talking to this guy for almost three months now. so far i have basically have bought him minutes for his prepaid phone constantly(it has stopped now.) I bought like 7 things for valentine day. I got him a job where i work at. And still my chances with going out with him are still 50/50. Mind you that he lied to me once about this guy on his top 24 on myspace he told me that was his cousin. If fact that is one of the other guys he has been talking to for a year and hasnt gone no where. and also he hasnt toungue kissed me in 2 months we only have toungued kissed 3 times. what should i do? my friends think he is just a gold digger. that he is just using me. and everytime i did buy something he would get mad at me cause tells me not to buy them but he really did needed them. So can anyone help me?

2007-02-28 18:21:23 · 7 answers · asked by Miguel R 1 in Singles & Dating

I’m separated for 2 months when ever I want to see my 3 kids I have to go true hell with my wife so I don’t pay child support but I pay tuition for my kids and health insurance what can I do ? thank you very much.

2007-02-28 18:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by jeff w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not trying to sound insensitive but I'm tired of hearing about my ex's problems. We broke up because HE neglected ME. And ever since we've been broken up he's been trying to make me feel guilty for everything and he keeps whining to me about how his life sucks, yet when I ask him if he wants to work things out and get back together, he says no. I mean, I've been compassionate and sincere to his problems this entire time since 2 months ago when we broke up, but I'm getting very irritable. I've been trying to keep a friendship going with him because I dont want to lose contact with him, but all he ever talks about is how depressed he is. It's like he wants me to pity him. Is he forgetting that he's the one who neglected me and lied to me and ignored me during our relationship? I cant take it anymore, I've been trying very hard to be nice to this point so we can remain friends, but I just cant take it.

But at the same time I cant stand not ever talking to him again :(

2007-02-28 18:20:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even your friends said some unneccesary comments to make you feel bad? eg. you're fat. you're short. why? why are most people like this?

2007-02-28 18:19:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if he says he is miserable with the wife

2007-02-28 18:19:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few days before you wanna tell her and commit yourself, you broke into one hell of an arguement. You got so pissed off you used provoking and vulgar words like **** and damn towards her. As after an arguement, there's always some silence between you guys for the next day.So, what happens next? (if ure the guy/girl)

2007-02-28 18:18:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating