Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

I have a classmate, previously, we only a friend, he often borrow my book, never contact me. But now, we exchange things and borrow things each other. He sometimes call me. Invite me to come to his church, house, meet his parents. More open than formerly. But I can't guess, why if I contact him (send short message/text message to his mobile phone), why he very seldom to reply it, even ever not reply. or just the next day he would reply my message. Sometimes, he is so sweet to me, give care, make a jokes, but sometimes I feel that he don't care about me. I know we only a friend, but I can't accept why he is not reply my text message.

What the logic reason , why he not answer my text message? If I'm wrong to contact him via text message? whether he don't like me? whether he want run and escape from me? hate me? busy? had other girl friend? Whether I must still contact him? what should I do ? (I think I love him, care about him).

2007-02-28 17:54:24 · 2 answers · asked by mantha s 1 in Singles & Dating

Can any one pl tell me you open an HUF account in a bank whhat earnings can be deposited into that account? What are the advantages of holding such account?

2007-02-28 17:53:22 · 1 answers · asked by Urvi 2 in Friends

Going through the pages/bringing up the rages/
thinking sometimes hurts me/more stupid than I can see/Why dont I leave/Why do I stay/They will be a day/Where I just wont wake/
Yes oh yes that is written in stone
Why or why wont you leave it alone?
Born to hate and hates to lose
I could leave if I choose
Wont let it die/bring it up some more
Kids and houses and cars and parks/The dream is now becoming dark

What do you think of this?

2007-02-28 17:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl freshman year in high school. We over the whole high school era, we became really good friends. Also, over those years... I came to love her, and everything about her. Of course, she only sees me as a friend. I've had this secret love for years now... we are both freshman in college.

The thing is, I'm pretty sure she knows I love her. She's way to afraid to love me back, and maybe ruin the friendship we have.

She just recently got her very first "boyfriend," and I freaked out. I got mad at her and messed our friendship up for a while. But everything is better now... well at least she thinks that.

I have always been there for this girl. She has had some family problems and life problems in general. Later, her grandma (her grandparents raised her... long story) took me aside after graduation and told me stuff like, thanks for looking out for her, thanks for being there and taking care of her, and thanks for teaching her so much about the world.

2007-02-28 17:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by classical_maniac101 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys,I need more feed back & your honest opinion on this.please read below -it's about my friend who is like a sis to me. Emotionally she is not doing well because of this realtionship issue & sadly she has this tendency of taking everyone's blame even when it's not her fault & beating herself up emotionally.I think she might've some real confidence issues here which she herself not aware of & I think she needs help.

My friend is a very kind,intelligent & very caring woman.She has been in love with this man for 2 years &He says he loves her too.she has always been there for him as a friend & lover showring him with constant love & care unconditionally.But it seems this man has some serious problems - practically he has never been there for her even as a FRIEND from DAY ONE when she needed him & has ZERO contribution to this relationship.All he had ever done has only to say he loves her very much. He would ask her to email him, to show her care for him & she does care for him a lot..

2007-02-28 17:51:54 · 7 answers · asked by SpiderQbeck 2 in Singles & Dating

We get all types of aches, pains and conditions that men do not get. A lot of times we hear that it is in our heads. What condition would you love for them to experience just one time?

2007-02-28 17:51:32 · 9 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating

We're both off on Tuesdays. He said "I owe you a Tuesday!" I had asked him earlier today "When ya gonna wax my truck?" So when he said he owed me a whole day, I asked him what he wanted to do. He acted like he just wanted to hang out with me all day. I thought he had been flirting with me. Do you think he suggested spend the whole day together as an excuse to get closer...like it's a date...without facing rejection? I really like him and think he's been hinting to start something.

2007-02-28 17:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We all know that sense of humour is something that attracts everyone.. I don't really make people laugh when I try cracking jokes.. They either laugh just to keep my heart or simply ignore me.. How do I develop my sense of humour??

2007-02-28 17:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by Faheem 1 in Friends

2007-02-28 17:51:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, i'm not having sex till i'm married, but i was wondering...why is it that you can get diseases like aids ect... when you're not married, but nobody worries about it when they are married...or can you still? i'm just confused and just wondering....

2007-02-28 17:51:00 · 2 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

Just so you all know I'm only 13.

2007-02-28 17:50:54 · 1 answers · asked by kazekage786 1 in Friends

2007-02-28 17:50:44 · 5 answers · asked by Maithili C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a long distance relationship with my gf. In dec I was at her place in boston when I found an email from her to another guy saying "we're not doing too good at this" and "got your vm, but my bf was here..you could have gotten me killed" and "still feeling guilty, more that I hit on this off the market guy on a daily basis" and "call me tonight...I will be alone". Anyway...I called her out on this and she said it was a flirty friendship, he lives in another state and he has a gf. she says nothing ever happened, just phone calls. I asked her to call him to prove it, she said no. I asked her to send him an email to cut it off..she lied and sent it to a fake address. She even told me he was black to throw me off (I know she only likes white guys), turns out he is white. Anyway. I know in my heart she is lying, but NEED proof. How can I get the proof? She deny's everything now. I just need to know if they slept together or hooked up. She likely already told him not to say anything

2007-02-28 17:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl in school that I like. We are the same age and I’ve known her for a couple of years now (but we are not close friends).
I like her a lot and I try to flirt with her but she doesn’t seem to respond well to that. And I don’t think that she would go anywhere with me. (I kinda suspect that maybe one of her friends likes me)
My question is what should I do?
I know everybody asks the same question but I’m really confused and I’m not that good at this (as you probably guessed by now).
I really don’t know what to do. The only thing I can think of is during classes to take her hand and take her somewhere more private in the building and tell her everything
(that I like her, that I like being with her, that I’m doing this in school since I don’t see her outside of it, and ask her whether I have any chance of being more then friends with her) I really really need your opinion (no matter how brutal it is). Is that ok, what should I change or maybe you have another idea

P.S. I don’t mean to like kidnap her or force her to listen or something violent like that I mean to take her hand and ask her come with some place more private in the school

2007-02-28 17:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if your husband dont understand you even if you could make him try to understand but will not..and if u and ur husband practically fight all the time...oh and even this...if you have depression the man that i supposly love dont want to understand my depression...what i am saying is the man dont understand me at all...

2007-02-28 17:48:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I tought motor driving to my daughter due to love and affection. I and she, both are working / earning. She never ask me: What do you want? What I can do for you? What is your choice in eating?
I want lassi. She: 'No'. I want food without onion. She likes onion. She: 'You will have to eat food cooked by me / by mother. You have to eat'. I can live without food. I am ready to eat outside.
If I am silent, all is OK, but if I express my desire / need / taste, all shout on me. All ladies beats me. Am I begger?
I am ready to eat food of their choice for 6 days but should not they cook food for me for choice at least 1 day in week. On that day, they can cook of their choice for them. I never say: You eat of my choice. Should I expect anything from children. Give and take in love. If I am silent can I show love for my family? If I speak, I am bad, mad. If I am silent, I am bad. I am bad in the eye of all. If I tolerate silently, all is good, all are glad. Can a sad person become glad?

2007-02-28 17:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 17:47:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are a spinal cord injury couple. We love each other so much and have problems like most but the biggest prob.is in our sex life, which is the most imporatant area that I need filled the most.. I have been very patient with him, and his excuses are being to tired or skin problems, but I am not getting any younger, after being married for 12 years now. I am really missing out on the true love making and excitment that I have never really had a chance to experience all the wonderful joys of love making with him the one you love cause he's not interested.. I know he is atracted to me, thinks I am beautiful and desires me, but to him cuddeling with me is all that interests him.. It is really hard to take that when men show interest in me, flirts with me and exchange numbers with me. My question is,Should I Go find outside the marriage how to pleasure myself and surprise him with better experience to show him that I can pleasure him so he will then want to be with me?

2007-02-28 17:47:11 · 11 answers · asked by cindylou0520 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 17:47:04 · 1 answers · asked by Maithili C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 17:46:18 · 16 answers · asked by matttheking_2000 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not a normal 23 year old. I want a something long term and a family in the future. Waiting till im 30 to get married isnt in the cards.

2007-02-28 17:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked to add you to my facebook if we haven't talked ever before? It's just that I saw you at the library and thought you're pretty !!!

2007-02-28 17:44:50 · 16 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

I looked in a forest,and I saw you.
The most wonderful sight I knew.
No shadows cast upon you.
You stood and smiled,and I called your name,and I got no reply,You just smiled and said I love you GOODBYE.

2007-02-28 17:44:35 · 3 answers · asked by kimmysue34 2 in Singles & Dating

My patner and I are living with my mum(we pay rent and every other bill double than what she pays)..we were trying to find a house to move to meanwhile.Last night my mum and my patner had an argument..he didnt do anything to her and decided to ignore her and go to bed(this was at 2am) she called the police and said she wanted him out cause he was being rude.so the police took him to his mum's place.and now im stuck here with our son ..and now my mum is trying to be all nice to me like nothing happened.and she wont let me go and see him or him come here. i am planning on going to live with my patner and his mum(his mum said it was ok).but dont know how long i have to wait until that happens..i feel so sad, alone..and angry..is this unfair? what do you think?

2007-02-28 17:44:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-28 17:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by ilyn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What Do U think?

2007-02-28 17:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by ChatJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

are there any tips to know whether my girl remembers or compares me with her ex-boyfriend. She has never disclosed to me that she has any ex-

2007-02-28 17:43:02 · 2 answers · asked by alone in 6billion 1 in Singles & Dating

I am interested in this guy who is still not divorced as yet . Was that a big mistake. I have some special feelings for him. I said to him that we could not see each other every day. Maybe he took that the wrong way. I need a little time to get real serious. I think he already has a hold on my heart but he called and acted kind of aggravatiated. I would like to be with non stop from now on. I am doing his laundry he will pick up tomorrow . I was going to his place to fix a simple meal. Now i am considering just forgetting about it because he said he believed i was right about us not seeing too much of eachother. So just grab a woman's heart and try to toss it back. When we when out i help to pay seceral times because he was low on money. Well if i go out again Except if i fix our dinner tomorrow night. I am just going to be quiet and a little distant. I don't think he knows what he wants. I want a one woman man. I won't say any thing about the future. Should i run?

2007-02-28 17:42:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found e-mails and phone bills, so I hired a privite detective who then provided some photos and/or details. She even sleep with men that she met locally. These men know she was married and just didn't care when confronted they and then she admitted knowing of her marriage once shown the photos.

What do I do with these men that coveted my wife and what do I do about my marriage?

2007-02-28 17:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by Dr Sex and Soul 2 in Singles & Dating

there are times when a grown son or daugher should be put over a knee for a sound spanking?

2007-02-28 17:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by sassyjane7 1 in Family