There is this girl in school that I like. We are the same age and I’ve known her for a couple of years now (but we are not close friends).
I like her a lot and I try to flirt with her but she doesn’t seem to respond well to that. And I don’t think that she would go anywhere with me. (I kinda suspect that maybe one of her friends likes me)
My question is what should I do?
I know everybody asks the same question but I’m really confused and I’m not that good at this (as you probably guessed by now).
I really don’t know what to do. The only thing I can think of is during classes to take her hand and take her somewhere more private in the building and tell her everything
(that I like her, that I like being with her, that I’m doing this in school since I don’t see her outside of it, and ask her whether I have any chance of being more then friends with her) I really really need your opinion (no matter how brutal it is). Is that ok, what should I change or maybe you have another idea
P.S. I don’t mean to like kidnap her or force her to listen or something violent like that I mean to take her hand and ask her come with some place more private in the school
2007-02-28 17:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk her to class, make a date for lunch, study, or something after school. Start slow and one day run into her and just about knok her down so you can catch her in your arms...look into her eyes and say...it's ok i got you. If she pushes away and calls you a name...she does not like you like you like her. If she looks back at you and laughs ...she likes you.
2007-02-28 17:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you tell her you want to take her somewhere private, she might take it the wrong way and think your taking her somewhere to have sex or something. You should just talk to her more and maybe ask her on a date and tell her that you like her. Don't automatically jump to asking her to be your girlfriend.
2007-03-01 01:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you want to take her to another part of the school, please let her know where and why? so you can talk privately. If she feels truly uncomfortable-let her friend come with. Share with her what you shared here. Then, depending on how it goes, take it from there. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-01 01:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh,boy--the problems of unanswered love..............
I don't think she is interested,and you are setting yourself up for the big fall.
There are plenty more out there --move on and look for another.
2007-03-01 01:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BALLIN
2007-03-01 02:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋