My patner and I are living with my mum(we pay rent and every other bill double than what she pays)..we were trying to find a house to move to meanwhile.Last night my mum and my patner had an argument..he didnt do anything to her and decided to ignore her and go to bed(this was at 2am) she called the police and said she wanted him out cause he was being rude.so the police took him to his mum's place.and now im stuck here with our son ..and now my mum is trying to be all nice to me like nothing happened.and she wont let me go and see him or him come here. i am planning on going to live with my patner and his mum(his mum said it was ok).but dont know how long i have to wait until that happens..i feel so sad, alone..and angry..is this unfair? what do you think?
2007-02-28 17:44:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Collen O ..
i understand its my mum's house..but he didnt do anything..and she completly over reacted..and kicked him out with the police at 2 am ! ..couldnt she wait till the moring or something?
2007-02-28 17:52:57 · update #1
Your old enough to make your own decisions, dont let your mom make them for you.......after all the only person that will be living your life for you, is YOU!!!!
2007-02-28 18:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was a bit too much her calling the police. Is there more to the story perhaps that you aren't telling. Or maybe your mom totally overreacted but if she did there is nothing you can really do, she is doing you a favor by staying there afterall(even if you are paying). I think there is more to this story, why won't she let you see him. Is he abusive? More importantly if you are married and have a child that would definitely classify you as an adult. Your mom seems to be way to controlling. You need to break away and live your own life at least for your baby's sake.I really can't say much more because I feel something is not being told.Best of luck to you!
2007-03-01 02:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Truly Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe you and your boyfriend should get your own house and stop living with your parents especially when you have a child together. if you can afford to pay rent to your mom's then why cant you pay rent in your own place and quit sponging off your parents geneosity. maybe your mom is just fed up with the living situation and was just looking for an excuse to get rid of him knowing you would follow or maybe she knows something about your boyfriend that you dont.
2007-03-01 02:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your old enough to make your own decisions. Dont let your mum ruin your life. I would get straight of the house asap. Its not just you, but your child that is missing your partner... its unfair on the both of you xXx
2007-03-01 04:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by vikki a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh........get out of the house. You mom can't tell you what to do. If you are old enough to be a mom you are old enough to move and go where you can go.
You guys really shouldn't of had kids before you were able to live on your own.
good luck
2007-03-01 01:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there's more to the story, it sounds like she over reacted. Get yourself together and you and your son go live with his mom. Try to keep the peace between families if possible.
2007-03-01 07:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is you mother's house, she has the right to decide who lives there or not.
2007-03-01 01:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your mother's house your mother's rules. sorry girl. she didn't work hard all her life to get some obnoxious little kid shoving her around ( this i mean your bf). so he either has to shut up, swallow his pride and come abd apologize to your mother or u will have to leave if u want to be with him.
2007-03-01 03:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell you what..........i think some thing that might solve this is to by your own house!!!!!!!!!!
it's unfair
2007-03-01 02:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by lorrrrrrrrrrrrrrn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋