Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

my husband and i have just had our first baby
(2months) i would like to have another within the next 5 years. but all of the sudden he says that he doesn't want anymore, ever. What should i do??

2007-02-28 17:01:37 · 14 answers · asked by musicchic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single mother of three small children- ages 3,4, and 5. Just wondering your opinion on dating someone with kids?

2007-02-28 17:01:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 17:00:54 · 4 answers · asked by yekis 2 in Singles & Dating

I do. Now I am fairly sure I know what this means, but I just do not want to make the mistake of missinterpreting this. She is a very close friend but I don't want to make the relationship uncomfortable. OK here it is. I got an email from her with this in it.
KIRA'S LIST OF FAVORITE ATTRIBUTES of MICHAEL
-Sense of humor
-Humility
-Groundedness
-Supportiveness
-Wit
-Unselfish Nature
-Empathy and Understanding of Others
-Perceptiveness
-Taste in Movies and Television
-Artistic Talents
-Interest in the Life and the World
-Long Hair
-Impossibly Blue Eyes
-Laid Back/Casual Style

I wouldn't have thought anything of it if not for the "impossibly blue eyes". Am I wrong to read into this?

2007-02-28 16:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by Michael M 4 in Singles & Dating

Can I wait till after the wedding?
Who eles do I gift? Parents?
Any suggestions

2007-02-28 16:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by Violet 3 in Weddings

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now, and we're both in love. I can completely be myself around her, and we usually have a lot of fun. Yet, recently we've been fighting a lot, and I've gone through spells of wanting to end the relationship. In a few months, I'm leaving for the army, and we won't have a whole lot of contact for about 4 years. She says she is willing to stick with me, and I believe her. Yet, she fears that she loves me more than I love her, and I feel like it is true. I love her, but at the same time I'm having my doubts about the relationship. Sometimes I can't help but wonder what else is out there, or I just focus on all the fighting that has happened between us lately. We've almost broken up quite a few times, and shes so wary of that now. She is an amazing girl, and most of the time she makes me feel good, but I still have my doubts.

2007-02-28 16:59:23 · 6 answers · asked by nowayman72 2 in Singles & Dating

I am at work right now, and my boyfriend just called me up and really made me angry and upset. I started crying and he hung up the phone on me. I don't want to get into why he upset me, he just is in one of those moods where he likes to argue about anything and everything.

I am at work right now, I work night shifts at a hospital, and all I want to do is cry, and be angry. How do you relieve stress when you are at work? I cannot get my head straight and I don't smoke so I can't resort to lighting up a cigarette.

I am losing my damn mind. :[

2007-02-28 16:57:51 · 4 answers · asked by MissDivine 2 in Singles & Dating

what ur opinion if the girl make a first move to contact the boy ?
whether call him or send a message to his mobile phone, what the boy's reaction ?

2007-02-28 16:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by wenweng w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 16:56:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-28 16:55:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that hes too busy with his work and his family. His family is very narrow minded so he cant talk with me on phone when he is at home. He is out of town most of the times for his work, he goes out for a month and comes back for say just 5-10 dasys. So it becomes very difficult for us to meet bcoz he has all his personal work to do as well in very short time. I am just tired of sacrificing for him. He keeps on asking me to understand his situation. I feel very lonely when hes not around. Can anyone suggest what I need to do??

2007-02-28 16:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 16:54:35 · 5 answers · asked by Raje 1 in Singles & Dating

what the sign if a boy sometimes call the girl (my sister) but if the girl (my sister) send a short message to the boy mobile phones, the boys seldom reply the message ?
what the good reason he not reply the message ?

2007-02-28 16:54:19 · 2 answers · asked by wenweng w 1 in Singles & Dating

i miss her very much i live in richmond va she lives in dc .she said she wants to be single and she told me dont wait on her.we had some problems like i was broke and stressed out when we started messing with each other but she stuck bye me .i cant lie i was insucure and i you to accuse her alot .i was scared of losing her to someone with money.i couldnt find a job i stop hustling so i just was messed up.but when she moved back to dc i found me a job and i,m doing a whole whole lot better now.then she started acting funny she wont callin me as much i got her alot of chrismas stuff she got me nothing .i briught velingting day flowwers she said thanks but it seemed fake .i want her back what should i do i really want her.she still texts me and call sometimes but it hurts cause i dont know if iam going to ever get her back i need some advice

2007-02-28 16:53:30 · 4 answers · asked by tycoon 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I broke up 2 months ago. Ever since then I've been miserable. I broke up with him because he neglected me & always put me before everything else. He basically made me feel unimportant & yelled at me when I tried to work out problems with him. After we broke up, since I was miserable, I tried to get back with him, but he wouldnt take me back. He said I hurt him by breaking up with him.

I didnt really talk to him for about 2 weeks but a couple nights ago he called me & he seemed really sad. When I asked him why he called he would say "i dont know" but he said he was sick and miserable and he was crying. We didnt really get that far in our conversation and I havent talked to him since that night.

What's bothering me now is that I dont want him out of my life, I want to try & work out a friendship with him. But my friends tell me to just forget about him completely & to lose all contact with him. Should I call him & make friends, or should I just cut him from my life?

2007-02-28 16:53:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 16:52:13 · 28 answers · asked by ACME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Help! I'm 13 years old and I was just instant messaging. This guy added me and I don't even know him but I accepted anyway. He asked for my name and I told him. We found out that we were the same age. I was being friendly, asking him questions about his hobbies and stuff. Then he started calling me 'babe' and I got really scared. He introduced me to all of his friends in a convo and said I was his girlfreind! Now, he's asking for my photo! I said no but he won't give in! I'm sooooooooo scared!

2007-02-28 16:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by :) 2 in Singles & Dating

that says Death Cult Legion 666...may i say it is a very nice shirt that ive wanted for a while...however, my mother claims that she has nightmares due to the fact that i now carry the number 666 with me...she is telling me to sell or exchange the shirt, however, i really like this shirt, and if i want to exchange it for another i would have to import a T from europe as far as i know

what do i do? i really like my shirt and i dont want to lose it...i dont know why i have to do it because she is terrified over the number 666...its just a number!

2007-02-28 16:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by super_6ix_4our 3 in Family

my marriage just fell apart and it was out of my hands... i'm so sad... but he doesnt seem to give a s***. it hurts so bad... how can someone who was considered family be so cruel? i guess i'm just wondering how you other women are coping with your divorces... ???? i moved out of state to live with family... i'm currently looking for work and have basically just been sitting in the house for 3 weeks... please give me some helpful advice!

2007-02-28 16:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by vneck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 16:50:16 · 20 answers · asked by angel d 1 in Singles & Dating

Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."


So is this bombshell #1?

He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.

Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...

I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?

2007-02-28 16:49:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mother passed away one month tommorrow. we were best friends and i quit working to spend all my time with mother and i am very depressed.

2007-02-28 16:49:03 · 24 answers · asked by 7777 1 in Family

I had an affair with this guy almost a year ago. I constantly think about him and sometimes think I still have deep feelings for him. He screwed me over a few times so whenever I think good things about him I remind myself that he bad mouthed me to people and everything else he did that was wrong....but I STILL think GOOD about him! Why!

2007-02-28 16:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by bri 3 in Singles & Dating

He tried to choke me while we were fighting- he has always had an uncontrollable temper- put his fist through a wall but NEVER touched me before--we have two grown children out of the house and I don't know what to do. I don't make enough money to get by on my SS if I kicked him out, and I really don't want to disillusion my daughters- who never saw this side of him (his rage is uncontrollable when it is unleashed- he was in Vietnam and did get the purple heart for saving men and killing many of the enemy) and this is what scares me because I KNOW his choke hold on me wasn't the first time he did it-- but as soon as he realized what he was doing, he let go. What should I do?

2007-02-28 16:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by sandybrandydot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im an australian married to asian guy.i know alot about this culture of these people and i know if u live in rome u do what romans do.the problem is what do i do when i have such a controlling father-inlaw that he do all decitions for me including the lives of my three kids.he tells u what to think,do,eat and i feel like a maid bec i i have no say upon our daily lives.my kids complain so much and i feel useless not doing anything for the sake of my marriage.my husband knows about this saddness in my life but there is really nothing that he can do about this situation.what do i do?not ony for me but for the kids sake

2007-02-28 16:47:04 · 9 answers · asked by whitycat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What you mean to me.
My baby you mean the world to me,
Threw my eyes you'd never see,
only the love I feel for you,oh tell what to do.
I need for you to see what you mean to me.

So many stars in the nights sky,It's taken me a little while.
Look at me now,my heart is a circle never ending my love for you.
Oh tell me what I need to do.
I need for you to see what you mean to me.

Now my baby,I will say,"For all of tomorrow" and every single day,
I love you my baby,you mean the world to me,you are all of the stars in my heaven to hold while I'm young until I grow old.
I cherish your soul until eternity,for always my love we will be.
Now once again listen and see all of what you mean to me.

2007-02-28 16:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by kimmysue34 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who recently moved away. i was away at the time and didnt have a chance to say goodbye. coincidently i am at the same city which she moved to, (i am visiting here) but i dont know where she lives and would like to visit her. i have no way to contact her. the place is LA and all i have is her full name. what websites can help me find her address with her name? she is underage and lives with her parents.

2007-02-28 16:46:17 · 6 answers · asked by imherewhatareyourothertwowishes 1 in Friends

This is her first sleep over party and I dont know what to do for 7 12 year olds. She is really worried that they will think shes lame.

Its Friday and Im at a loss! Any ideas? I said we could play bingo and get some cool gifts to give but she called me a bingo freak. I guess thats not (cool) anymore. Thanks

2007-02-28 16:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by top momma 3 in Family

I weigh about 201 pounds and I am 5'6". My pant size is 12 womens and my bra size is 38 DD. Am I too fat? Do I need to lose weight to attract more men?

2007-02-28 16:46:03 · 25 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3 in Singles & Dating

In Mainland China women keep their own family names after marriage,and the babies use their fathers' family names.But since the mother is the only child of her family,sometimes they argue about whose family name the baby should follow.

2007-02-28 16:44:41 · 18 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Family