My wife and I are separating, we just kinda grew apart. Neither one of us cheated on the other or anything like that. She has found someone new that she says is her soulmate and she is falling in love with him. Just last night we were talking and she sounded doubtful that she was making the right decision, she didn't say that but she did say that she was not sure about her new friend. I then told her that I was helping a female family friend move tomorrow and my wife snapped. She said she was mad because I was going to help someone else when I should be home packing my stuff up to move out this weekend. I think she was mad because she thinks I am trying to hook up with this other woman, which is not my intention at all, and my wife was jealous. I told her tonight that I loved her and I wanted to try and work things out with her, but I told her to think about it and if her answer was no that I would let her go. Do you think that she is having second thoughts? I am moving out on Saturday, and she told me earlier today that she was going to miss me. I don't know if it is because bills will be harder to pay when I am gone, or if she is seriously thinking about giving us another shot. She has always said that it is over between us, she has not responded to my requests for counseling or anything. But again today she said that she didn't ask for a divorce, only a separation, but she did say she wanted a divorce and she was already talking about filling for it early next year after we are separated for 1 year. I don't want to lose her but I don't want to push her away either. We have been married for 8 1/2 yrs and we have 2 children together.
2007-02-28
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