I was in love with Mr. X and he told me periodly he loved me too.
We recently broke up because of some very insensitive situations he put me and had no reguard for my feelings. ex... he invited and disinvited me to his mother's retirement party( I never laid eyes on his mom before even though we've had a 4year relationship). We had to keep our relationship private due to the fact that I still have my baby's father in my life due to the fact that our child is young and he watched him while I work and go to school. Mr. X always wanted me to severe my relationship with my son's father, but has never done anything nowhere near as supportive as my son's father, infact he has only given me perfume as a gift in 2005. He never surprised me with gifts or better yet, has never called on my birthday for 2 years. so I left him, knowing that he probably never loved me, but I still miss him terribly..am I a sucker for love?
2007-02-28 16:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not enough lubrication that's why.
2007-02-28 16:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by hehehe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry,but you would be making a mistake if you pursued this relationship. You are lonely, I understand that and as a result, you are thinking that you miss him. You are really just missing having a relationship. Find someone else (and it won't happen overnight) who will care for you and treat you right.
PS: Anyone who does not accept your ex's involvement in his childs life is obviously immature, lacks self confidence and does not care about your child. The only exception would be if the father is a drug addict or had some other destructive personality trait.
2007-03-01 00:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by player9900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some of us, we seem to still carry a torch for a person even though we know that they didn't treat us right or gave us the love and attention that we deserved.........We're human and feelings can be a tough thing to understand and let go. Maybe you should ask yourself why you miss him. Is it the loneliness that's settling in? Would you rather have someone like that in your life than no one at all? Sometimes relationships are difficult to detach from and it takes time to move on.............
2007-03-01 00:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not a sucker for love but just companionship. you were with this guy for awhile and u probably felt comfortable with him. give it time, this too shall pass...and you can do much better, especially with a child involved. you need to find a man that will be supportive of your lifestyle...your ex was not!
2007-03-01 00:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're just getting used to being without him. Congratulations for putting an end to a relationship with no future, and choosing to honor yourself! In time, you will be excited about your life again and all you have to offer a man who is worthy. You only have one life to live, you have to live it for yourself! Be strong!
2007-03-01 00:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by reflex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are, and the truly romantic will eventually find true love. Move on from him, give yourself time, then open your heart again. Good luck.
2007-03-01 00:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about em girl, you shouldnt be feeling sorry for anything he seems a bit insensative and not worth it, especially if hes not showing you off to his mom theres something wrong with this guy, usually guys are pretty eager to show girl off to family, you and your son deserve better
2007-03-01 00:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love stinks.But we can't seem to live without it. Try to focus on you child and your life.Stay busy with your child.There is one love that you know you will always have no matter what.
Chin up!
2007-03-01 00:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on with your life,the guy is a loser. Find someone that will be good to you. And quit comparing them with your ex. lol that sucks!!Good Luck
2007-03-01 00:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your retarded get back with your ex
2007-03-01 00:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Iam_canadian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋