Help of how to start friendship relation with others?

Question

recently, i've alway wandered how to introduce myself to the one that i've alway want to know better.... however, i didn't have the courage to do so... i afraid that my action will be too strange dueling with her and fell shy wil my action... moreover, i still want to know her that why i need the help of you all... thank you...

Answer 1

Philosopher John Dewey once said "the deepest urge in human nature is the desire to be important."

People love to feel like they are important. Find something nice to compliment them on that you think is honestly a good
characteristic. Dont lie-lies are very false and see thru. If you dont find something that you appreciate that person for, enough to compliment, they are not meant to be your friend.

Dale carnegie said "If you tell me how you get your feelings of importance, Ill tell you what you are. That determines your character."

Charles Schwab (the first person to ever have a $1million salary)was once asked how he earned a million dollars per year. He said, "I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people the greatest asset i posess, and the way to develp that best in a person is by appreciation and encouragement."

Whatever you do, do not force it, it must be natural from the heart. Im sure it will work out. :-)

Answer 2

Hi!!

First of all start by being yourself at all times. If you are not true to yourself, other people are going to sense that at the are not going to feel comfortable around you.

How ever you are, try always to bring happiness to others, and learn how to listen. respect and understanding is the key to successfully build a new friendship.

Be honest and sincere, just to some extend, until you actually know if this person is worth of your trust and friendship.

Not because you want someone as a friend that means that is always going to work out . Start little by Little, until the friendship is full blown.

And if that person is not worth of being your confidant at least you will have an acquaintance.

GOOD LUCK

A. Z.