My girlfriend dumped me and I freaked out.?

Question

She said she was dumping me because she didnt like me anymore but i dont know why I didnt do anything to her.
I really want to talk to her because she was my best friend and now I feel stranded with no members of the opposite sex to talk to.
She also knew she was going to break up with me two weeks in advance and is now acting cold towards me but I just started the post break up process and she has a head start, making her even more cold to me.
I made the mistake of trying to talk to her online and then the next day in person.
We see eachother a few times a day and cant get aways from eachother because of our classes.
I dont know what to do, I want her back but she doesnt like me and I cant get over her but I see her everyday.
I thought I was ready for a break up but I was wrong I was just mad.

Answer 1

I think you need to make a decision about this girl. You have two options. You can continue to mope and wish for something that's not going to be or you can try to accept the fact that it's over and try to hold onto the friendship you had.
It's not going to happen instantly but once to make the choice and stick to it, you'll find that it gets easier.
She's probably not talking to you because she knows that you want her back and doesn't want to have to say no and hurt your feelings.
It's normal to be upset when a relationship comes to an end but i think you're better off holding onto the friendship that inspired the romance in the first place. Give you both some time and approach her again, be friendly and things will soon get back to how they used to be. One day some other girl will catch your eye and you'll forget all about this girl.

Answer 2

If she dumped you right when you thought the relationship was getting closer it might be because at the same time she thought the relationship was getting closer based on just a friend level as in she started seeing you as a "best friend" ratehr than a "boy friend", could be mentally she was into you but sexually no, she just started seeing you underneth a diffrent light (if you get what im saying), give her some time to cool off, about 3 weeks, i know 3 weeks sounds like an ethernity if your thinking of her every second of the day but try to make it or atleast 2 weeks, if you keep bugging her shes going to think your annoying and it will only amke matters worse, just wait and then slowely approch her asking her if she even still wants to be friends and whats the reason she bropke up with you, i hope i helped atleast a little, and another thing don't let her know your dying for her attention but also dont try to make her jelous with another girl neither technique will work, so just try to play it cool good luck with wather you deceide to do

Answer 3

It's hard when you get dumped, but all you can do is go on, and pick up the pieces. Dont go trying to get her back or doing anything desperate, she'll only see you as pathetic. Do what these guys say, and just move on. Sometimes, it's just not meant to be. I say, just think of it as a good thing-- now you're free to go find someone who's better for you!

Answer 4

First, clam down; break up is not going to kill you

Second, just because you didn't have a head start means you can not be stronger than her. Don't think too much of it ... if you do, then you are just trapping yourself in a vicious cycle.

Third, concentrate on something ... study or a hobby .... will be difficult at first but you will succeed if you try. This help to get your orientation right and later you will see how dumb she was to leave you.

Answer 5

Welcome to the Club! ^_^

First gf?? Women have such great advantages when it comes to break ups...

If i were you don't let it get to your head... she broke up with not because she doesn't like you or anything she broke up with you coz she saw another guy better than you especially if they planned it before hand...

If you truly love her show her that you can live with out her trust me this works they always come back if they see you becoming more mature and more responsible especially in the way you look and the way you live...

Don't show her that the break up has turned you sour or has wrecked your insides be happy look for other things to put your mind in even if you see her always in you class that doesn't mean a thing if shes cold then let her be but that doesn't mean that you got to sulk just go on with your life... I have and now i got more friends to talk to and more girls to hang out with! ^_^

Trust me when i say that if your happy and enjoying your life she'll come back or better yet you'll get someone better! ^_^

Answer 6

Move on - people grow out of relationships. Time heals everything even though you think it is the end of the world. Give her some space and who knows she may find the grass is not greener on the other side of the street. In the meantime move on with your life and find other hobbies or new friends. You are still young and you have youth on yourside!

Answer 7

It has been my experience(with men anyways) that if you are good to them they treat you badly but if you treat them like crap you can't get rid of them.
What you need to do may not be what you want to do right now, but you need to start dating some other girls asap and start treating your ex with the indifferent kindness you would treat a passing stranger in a store with. Be polite, yet unconcerned and this too shall pass....usually a lot quicker than one might think.

Answer 8

Dude I feel your pain and if anything it's better you see it now than to deal with her cheating on you to put it in your face of her intent. You will move on and meet someone else who's not going to treat you like a convienient asset and then toss you once you've served your purpose. I wouldnt bother with her anymore since the problem is with her not you.

Answer 9

Here's what you did wrong:

I really want to talk to her because she was my best friend and now I feel stranded with no members of the opposite sex to talk to.

"SHE WAS MY BEST FRIEND"

It's too late now. All you can do is treat her as an acquaintance and she may realize what she's missing.

Answer 10

MAN, just let her go, and move on. I know it sounds nearly impossible, but don't let her get the better of you...show her that you will be ok, WITHOUT her!! Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing how she hurt you~she obviously doesn't deserve you. Find a new girl, one that will be real with you, and forget the cold hearted b****. GOOD LUCK