We always argue, he always starts it.
2007-02-28 16:19:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nobody can argue alone. Don't get drawn into an argument.
2007-02-28 16:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by someone's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Billy, as a young man I had many arguments with my father as well. Most of them because he thought a mans job was to be dictator of the household. I'll tell you this. In many ways he was only doing things that he felt was right. A lot older and wiser now I understand why he done many of the things he done. Whether his actions were wrong or right is really not important, what is important is why he was doing them. I am a husband and father of 3 and I will tell you that being a good father is not easy. There are many tough decisions to make, and doing what is right is not always easy. It is easy to be your child's friend, but he will never learn the things a father should teach him. And being a father will most of the time make you lose your child's friendship.
Just try to be understanding, and accept that maybe you don't know as much as you may think you do and someday when you understand why he does what he does, he may understand what he done wrong for the right reasons. Believe me Billy, it's not easy to selflessly take care of a family that curses your name, especially when you do what you think is best for them.
2007-03-01 00:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't argue with your Father, please. If you disagree with him about something, respectfully let him know. Then back off & don't keep at it. You live under his roof & you should always work on trying to be respectful & honor your parents. He heard you & he's the Father & Head of the Household. When you get older & have kids, you'll understand. In the meantime, try spending quality time with your Dad (do something fun together) and you'll be busy enjoying time together & not fighting. Try hard to please your parents. They cared for you for soo long & have done soo much for you. (Again, once you have kids, you'll understand.) Your Dad (parents) are one of the most important people in your life. Treat them with love even if you feel like they are being difficult & you don't understand them right now. :)
2007-03-01 00:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that I need to talk with him. Try to find a time when you can have his undivided attention. Tell him just what you wrote. Ask him if there is something that you can do to make things better. Tell him that you love him and that it is important to you for the two of you to have a good relationship. I bet if you talk to him in a mature, sincere way that he will listen. Do not make accusations but express your sincere desire to improve the relationship. God Bless You! I hope this helps.
2007-03-01 00:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this happens to me all the time dont worry dude. dont think that he doesnt love you anymore. you should try and be happy and even if u dont agree with him then you shouldnt start arguing it never resolves anything. talk about it and if he keeps shouting then just say "im not going to fight with you anymore' and walk away. best option
good luck
2007-03-01 00:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a note where he might find it - in his lunch pail; in the bathroom;etc. Just say in the note that you love him very much and you wish the arguing would stop. Tell him you will try and will he please try, also? Say let's talk sometime soon. You might not even have to say anymore. He might get the mesage. IF he gets physically abusive to you go see your guidance counselor imediately! Good luck! Stay strong!
2007-03-01 00:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is physical fights, talk to someone you trust about it. If it is just simple arguing, respect your father and his words, doesnt mean you have to aggree with it, but try and find a way thst you can talk without yelling
2007-03-01 00:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he say??? what ever he says just agree and the fight will be over but if you feel like it run away i do that some times!!!
2007-03-01 00:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what the arguement is about. Maybe you need to listen to what the problem is and work on it from there.
2007-03-01 00:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Panda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mistake is for you . you should listen to your dad. coz his the one who take care when you were young and were aware of anything. mind that if you realy daughter disrespect you ?
2007-03-01 00:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋