im not cruel but they act like total losers and treat me like dirt
2007-02-28 16:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by misterious person 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, I think my dad will go to hell.
So take it as long as you can and go to school and live on their money. Then when you get on your own you can hope they'll treat you better.
I tried to be nice to my dad for many years and he never got better but got worse, then I realized he will probably go to hell.
So try to be understanding and see their point of view, you aren't giving us much to go on here, we don't know how old you are.
Good luck.
2007-02-28 18:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteRain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "go to hell" is so loosely used, especially as an automatic response when you are very angry. You might say that phrase, but you probably really mean "I'm SO mad at you that I'm in a rage and I wish you would leave me alone!!!" or "I'd wish you'd just disappear!"
Do they really treat you like dirt, or is it you, being a typical teenager, resenting your parent's authority over you? When I was a young teen, my dad would make me SOOOO mad that I'd go to my room and silently cuss like a sailor at him and wish him to hell and back. Oh, those were the days! But as I matured, I grew to accept his faults and mentally forgave him for how he treated me sometimes. (His words would hurt me very much) Just be patient. There will come a time when you will be on your own. Hopefully, you will look back and know you didn't really think they should go to hell.
2007-03-01 00:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, but I thought they weren't good enough when I compared them to my friends parents. Their parents seemed to be smarter, richer and more understanding. Then I grew up and had kids of my own and one day my youngest daughter decided that what I was going to wear to her volley ball game wasn't "good enough" and it would embarrass her if I wore it..flashback!!! I guess my parents weren't so bad after all..so who is perfect here and has no faults...not me and I admit it...try to look in a mirror and to see what your parents see when they look at you..do you see a perfect person looking back at you? Are there things you do intentionally trying to be individual that could make them "treat you like dirt"? Self exams are the best way to see who truly needs adjustments...if it is them..try telling them how you feel...unless they're mind readers....they don't have a clue how you feel!
2007-03-01 00:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by scampsmom1953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I had that feeling about 10 minutes ago. I'll be better in the morning though.
2007-03-01 00:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by korngoddess1027 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never.
Remember they are your parents and they know what is best for you, though you might not see it that way now, but one day you will appreciate all they do for you or don't allow you to do
2007-03-01 00:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by ggoldiee23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. Then I grew up and had my own life and was able to recognize how much they taught me and how much they love me.
2007-03-01 01:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by noonecanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, honor thy Mother and Father
2007-03-01 00:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your last name Menendez? Borden?
2007-03-01 00:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lot of times but when it happens I try to stay away from them til they calm down...
2007-03-01 00:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your family needs professional help. Good~Luck to you :-)
2007-03-01 00:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋