Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

2 people like me and my wife make it work i was raised by outsiders not family been out on my own since the age of 7 had to do just about whatever it takes to survive.My wife tells me shes an adoptive child that her mom was very cruel and har dad was a military man but he past way many years ago. my wife is 41 and im 30. she has 3 teenagers 21yr female,18yrmale,16yrmale they treat her like shes their maid she gives gives and in return she gets no respect cussings guilt trips etc. i my self have 2boys age 8&9 and a girl2 currently fighting custody of them things look good there.but the enviroment that my wife allows to go on in our own home is very dissapointing to me cause they do as they please theres improvement but lots of arguments cause of her side i have went as far as not bringing my own kids over when its my visitation times i know its wrong but how do i get others to see what im talking about.rules in the home dont even matter. help with advice thankyou.

2007-02-28 16:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by elghost157 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get my guy to loose interest in me?

2007-02-28 16:03:32 · 30 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend, who is in her 30's asked,"A man I have been talking to on the net wants a picture of my private part, should I do it, although he is married, "What do I say?

2007-02-28 16:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by friday 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She likes me as a friend. When I'm around her I feel happy, calm, and joyful. How should I get her to like me?

2007-02-28 16:02:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should I just look for them in the clubs, bars, etc? Or should I look in other places?

2007-02-28 16:01:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 16:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ve been fighting with my friends and all my guy friends have turned against me and they call me names like bad ones and talk about me behind my back what should i do should i ignore it ? ive tryed that it doesnt work Help!

2007-02-28 16:00:21 · 1 answers · asked by what should i do? 1 in Friends

were in high school she is new at school and we talk once. I started the conversation saying its cold outside when she was about to go outside and get a snack out of the snack machine... and i stayed inside by myself and she comes back in and starts to talk to me... We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the public school. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break was over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. I haven't went to school for 4 days, but I went today and we both made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds, but her friend was right by the door when i walk in the class... so idk... than as we went on break she was waiting right by the door and i think she was looking at me to see if i would talk to her... but i didnt i walk right past her... i heard her outside yelling on the phone probably a family member... i was inside... i could hear her yelling cause i was right by the outside door... than she came inside cause it was cold outside... she talk on the phone across from me for about 2-3 minutes... than she went right back outside and talk... when she was done talking on the phone... she came inside with her head down... than she look up and look at me in a moody way... than she look back down really quick...she didnt give me a mean look... but she gave me a look like she was kinda mad or upset... we are both shy...

2007-02-28 16:00:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:58:57 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Okay.. Our marriage is almost perfect (14 years) 3 kids. Everything is great except sex. As the years have gone by it has gotten to be less and less. The past six months it has been average once a month and even then it seems to be a chore for her. There is no passion. It drives me crazy.. Got to have it. I am seriously thinking about leaving just to find that someone to cut loose. I am young "32" and dont want to spend the rest of my life like this. I get the feeling she is not IN love with me. She claims she is still in love with me.

I have heard the wife has sex with her brain. I have heard flowers, be nice all day, help out with the kids. Try some different things. I have done and heard it ALL! I will also add, the greatest part of sex for me is pleasing, so I know its not that. I am very open. I feel like I want to sleep with almost every half-way decent woman I see. Would it be selfish to leave my wife and kids just for sex.

2007-02-28 15:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by bukemdano18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This happened at my cousin's house tonight. The truth came out. The sex was weeks ago, but the confession busted tonight wide open!

2007-02-28 15:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both my mother and father are racially mixed. Because of this, I feel bound to stay within one of the 'races' so I don't further complicate things in the family? (Imagine a family reunion with 4 different languages being spoken).

2007-02-28 15:57:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy. basically we had a love affiar and he let me go so he could be with someone else. he is with her now. now i find out he is SAYING he been thinking about me this whole time and his new wife is HORRIBLE to him. He asked if he can come over. i thought about it and said you know its not a good idea since he is married. He has not responsded. its been 3 days of no response through chatting. Should i kick any chance of a freindship to the curb? I would liek to just be freinds with the person, so pls no lectures about dating a married man. I just wonder what u think this guy is trying to pull? thanks

2007-02-28 15:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:56:17 · 31 answers · asked by Molly M 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother sleeps on the couch every night. He has his own room, a practically new bed, and he still sleeps on the couch a few feet from my parents room. We've asked him, and he never gives us a reason. My parents are frustrated with him.

2007-02-28 15:56:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 15:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're not fighting or anything right now which is awesome but we seem to be fading from each other because we're both so busy and just don't have a lot of time to spend together. We've already broken up like 3 times in the past and have been together (excluding the break up periods) for over two years. I don't want to break up again because we always seem to just get back together again. Any suggestions?

2007-02-28 15:55:10 · 11 answers · asked by Michael 3 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to date an 18 year old? how old is ok?

2007-02-28 15:55:07 · 14 answers · asked by New Day 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm afraid they'll go crazy, start hanging out with snobby girls, and leave me! So many snobs.... What should I do?

2007-02-28 15:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by me 3 in Friends

okay theres a guy and he always looks at me during class and smiles. whenever he makes a joke or does something funny, he always turns around to see if im looking and (of course i am!) then he grins. he is always nice to me but sometimes makes these jokes about me but not all the time.
and then there was this one time when i was talking to this other guy who i kinda like and he was all trying to get my attention ( guy #1)
so does he like me?
oh and he always asks me questions for homework

2007-02-28 15:54:27 · 4 answers · asked by Chaaarlie! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:54:17 · 3 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."


So is this bombshell #1?

He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.

Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...

I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?

2007-02-28 15:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you like me? I'm 20, don't smoke, drink, or party. I'm good looking (so i've been told).
I don't have lots of friends though, and no good friends. I've only been on one date.

2007-02-28 15:53:13 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but i get alittle nervous around him for some reason

how do i let him know with body language or idk

but i want him to get a clue that i like him

2007-02-28 15:52:49 · 12 answers · asked by sleighbells 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by paramaguru s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

helpp!! i came 2 my new school last year. not long affter i liked a kid. i told 1 of my friends and they told the person i lliked. he made a grossed out face, && wouldn't talk to mee until THIS year, but i think i like him again... but he goes out w/ alot of people&& is very friendly... but now he is showing sum intrest but im not suree... when i told my friend rebeccca that i iked him she seemed disturbed- like i did sum thing wrong... *confused!*
the only thing holding me back from flirting is that LAST year he didin't like me probraly because i was less popular&& i didn't wear any makeup, so i was pretty plain. this year i wear makeup&& am MUCH more popular && prettier and niceer. overall s better person. i am 13. i have never had a boyfriend in my life... soo confused... should i ignore my feelings, or should i go for itt?? i also tense up whenn i talk to him, or even see him. i literally talk about 3 senteces every week- pretty sad. hhhheeeeeellllppppp mmmmmeeeeeeee plz? tahnks.!

2007-02-28 15:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by bust_it_babiiee<3 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a question! I am wanting to get my childs last name changed to my new last name. I just got married in Sept of 06 and my daughter still has my maiden name and i would like to have it changed to my new last name. What process do i need to go threw to have this done in WV?
Any help is much appreciated!!!

2007-02-28 15:51:45 · 3 answers · asked by nickole30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 15:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm the sister of the groom and have been invited to the personal shower for the bride. Dinner already is costing me $55... What do I buy for the bride? My soon sister-in-law to be. We don't get along too well. She criticizes every thing I do and say, I'd like to get something she won't belittle me for, but have no clue. Any ideas?

2007-02-28 15:50:52 · 11 answers · asked by MyrtyGert 2 in Weddings

My father in law LOVES his grandson, he worships the ground he walks on, everyone knows it. He's at our house every other day. He's always there for us when we need him, and he's usually very helpful. Here's the problem. He makes really bad decisions that could harm our son and we don't know what to do. My son is only 5 years old, and he loves going places w/ his Grandpa. About a year ago, he let our son drive the riding lawn mower by himself, yes, Grandpa was walking beside of him, but we freaked out about this! When he was a baby, he took him in his stroller across a very busy road just to see the train. Just this afternoon, my husband was coming home, and he saw our son at a very busy convenient store in the back of Grandpa's truck, with the windows rolled halfway down, and Grandpa inside the store. We tried sitting down with him to tell him we dissaprove of this, and he got mad & left. Question, should we just stop him from getting him?? Our son would be so sad! Please help!

2007-02-28 15:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by jasonsjewel 2 in Family