Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

what should i do im desperate

2007-02-28 15:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by Korean Man 1 in Singles & Dating

They own a home together. My mom lives in it and my brother does not. Each year my mom has to pay 400.00 in land taxes, but she has let them go two years and there is a lean on the house. My mom is still not paying them and my brother is forced to to stop the house from being auctioned.
My mom thinks that he should have split the price with her in the first place and then they would not have gotten this bad, and my brother thinks my mother is irresponsible.
Here is the catch though my brother once let them go to 1400.00 dollars and my mom paid them off on her own. So, who do you think is in the wrong?
Because they are not talking I am forced to relay messages( only important things) and then they get mad at me instead of each other. What do I do? My mom says she does not want my brother at her funeral and I am scared that she means it.
This is causing me much stress and I am actually loosing sleep at night.

2007-02-28 15:22:23 · 4 answers · asked by Magzilla 2 in Family

Everytime i get a new cell phone, people always want to see it. But when i give it to them, i catch them almost going through my list of contacts, pictures (etc). When I look at someone's phone, i hold it to look at it better, not to go through their stuff cause i really don't care. I just wanted to know how many of you actually snoop and what do you look at?

2007-02-28 15:20:45 · 22 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Singles & Dating

so i have this boyfriend but he live accross the country. i love him a lot but theirs this guy and my school who i am also kinda dating.... i love them both equal but i just dont know what to do, i dont want to hurt either of them but thats all its really doing.........can you help.....please....?

2007-02-28 15:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by mz.nezbit 1 in Singles & Dating

What do u think,i want 2 surprise her,how do i find out where she would rather go without giving her any clues...

2007-02-28 15:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine is WONDERFUL

2007-02-28 15:19:11 · 34 answers · asked by LuvnLife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18, I have blonde hair blue eyes, I am 5' 10" tall, skinny, I wear semi-tight clothes becuase they are the most comforatable. I like to wear lighter colored clothes. I have glasses (whitish-clear frames).

I am a nice person, and I usually get replies from people telling me that I'm sweet. I enjoy simple things is life. Stars, sun, clouds, grass, pretty much anything that seems to catch my attention. my favorite place to go is on the rafters below a bridge and over a river.

I think that girls are the most magnificent masterpeice ever. And I agree when they say that Guys were God's rough draft. They should be treated as princesses. When they are down they should be able to cry on their boyfriends shoulders, and 5 minutes later be laughing and talking to their boyfriends.

Girls should also let guys like me express their feelings and cry on their shoulders, becuase there is no better place to cry uther than a girls shoulder.

Send your response to harmonicaband@yahoo.com

Thank you

2007-02-28 15:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got evreything to be emo and i want to go to school like that but im scared what my freinds(who are also emo might say) i dont want them to think bad of me or anything and i dont wanna say im going emo guys. but how should i show that im gona be emo plz real answers only

2007-02-28 15:18:39 · 5 answers · asked by emo elmo 2 in Friends

I luv my wife but sumtime i feel like she aint honest how do u find out secrets u shud no bout

2007-02-28 15:18:25 · 5 answers · asked by G^C^ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Shall I let him get close? Shall I let him stand near?
What is my fear?
He never told me he loved me,but he told me he cared.
I don't understand why I'm so scared.
Shall I look in another direction,shall I look another way.
Will he return some other day.
Dwindling along,I see no future to this feeling I know so well.
How can I tell?
What is my journey?
What is my escape?
Is it gasping words on an endless tape?
They told me I would reach my height,but I still can't see the light.
Maybe there's something I tend to miss.
They told me it was in his kiss.

2007-02-28 15:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by kimmysue34 2 in Singles & Dating

So I ask this girl out, she accepts and states a day. I told her that I would call her the afternoon on the day she stated. She ignores my call and never return my phone call. I run into her daily, so when I saw her again, I kept it simple and didnt mention anything about the call or date. Now all I say is hi to her when I see her. Should I compleltly ignore her now? Basically I think she accepted the date just to be nice.

2007-02-28 15:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by SL1983 2 in Singles & Dating

so I've loved my best guy friend for about 3 years and I've never had the courage to tell him untill two last friday. actually i had my best friend tell him because i'm really shy, when she told him he didn't say anything about it. in fact he hasn't said anything about it at all. yesturday he didn't say anything at all. but every other day including today was just like nothing happened. i really don't know what to think. Should i confront him about it or just let things unfold?

2007-02-28 15:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by hannah r 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. so there is this guy who is a best friend to the guy who dumped me (about a month ago.. for another girl....) now this whole group of friends i realized are just the types of guys who only date girls they think are attractive and easy. (which is i think why it didn't work out with me and that last guy) so anyways, this best friend told me he liked me a lot.. and i can't tell if it is sincere.. because of this fact. all he ever does is call me beautiful and hot and smart and all this stuff.. but not really get to Know me.. so i think it might be..? because i told him i'm not ready for anything anyways, and he said he couldn't be even friends, if i didn't want anything more because that's what he "needed." also i am going on a date with him monday (long story as to Why..), but i am scared that he will try something because of this. he knows how i feel- that i don't want anything more.. but still do you think he will try to make a move since i gave hiim this one date..?! any thoughts?

2007-02-28 15:16:57 · 16 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

where exactly do they put ''it'' in her?where do you buy it?

2007-02-28 15:16:21 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffany 2 in Singles & Dating

A year ago my sister set up a breakfast date with a friend of hers for me to meet. Very informal my sister, niece, my mom, me, my son and him all met we had a very nice time cahtting. He drove over an hour to meet for breakfast and then had to drive back to get to work. Six months later my sister called to let me know he was near and he wanted to see me. So he came over. We talked all night he has my phone # memorized and email but said he was too shy to call. For 1 1/2 months we talked every day and I was away and when I got home we hooked up again and he was back in the area (he works away 21 days straight and then has 7 days off) We had a good evening and we talked off and on and then he just quit calling... Is he shy again or just not interested.. please help..It's been since thanksgiving evening since we talked. My sister said life has just been really messed up for him.. should i just forget about him? We have a simular past and have both been married before.

2007-02-28 15:15:49 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

i plan on saying this to a girl i never talked to before and was wondering if i go up to her and tell her this would you think she would give me a chance.....i am shy and un-smooth at time but will do my best........would you say i should say this or not...if not what should i say?

"excuse me, I know i dont know you but i've seen you around and was wondering if i could get to know you"

2007-02-28 15:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am needing advice on what to play at my mothers funeral. She was only 51. I would love something that spoke about being a mom or something close to that. She like country...but I am open to anything!

2007-02-28 15:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

GIVE HER ONE OF YOUR T-SHIRTS TO SLEEP IN.
LEAVE HER CUTE TEXT NOTES
KISS HER IN FR0NT 0F Y0UR FRIENDS.
TRUST HER 0VER EVERY0NE ELSE.
TELL HER SHE L00KS BEAUTIFUL.
L00K HER IN THE EYE WHEN Y0U TALK T0 HER.
LET HER MESS WITH Y0UR HAIR.
MESS WITH HER HAIR.
JUST WALK AR0UND WITH HER.
F0RGIVE HER F0R HER MISTAKES.
L00K AT HER LIKES SHE'S THE 0NLY GIRL Y0U SEE.
TICKLE HER EVEN WHEN SHE SAYS ST0P.
H0LD HER HAND EVEN WHEN Y0U ARE AROUND Y0UR FRIENDS.
WHEN SHE STARTS SWEARING AT Y0U TELL HER Y0U L0VE HER.
LET HER FALL ASLEEP IN Y0UR ARMS
GET HER MAD, THEN KISS HER.
TEASE HER & LET HER TEASE Y0U BACK.
STAY UP WITH HER ALL NIGHT WHEN SHES SICK.
WATCH HER FAV0RITE M0VIE WITH HER
KISS HER F0REHEAD.
GIVE HER THE W0RLD.
WRITE HER LETTERS.
LET HER WEAR Y0UR CL0THES
WHEN SHES SAD, HANG 0UT WITH HER.
LET HER KN0W SHE'S IMP0RTANT.
LET HER TAKE ALL THE PH0T0S 0F Y0U SHE WANTS.
KISS HER IN THE RAIN.
AND WHEN Y0U FALL IN L0VE WITH HER, TELL HER.

2007-02-28 15:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by saveitforthemoshpit 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:13:55 · 10 answers · asked by Neill 3 in Singles & Dating

Many people go through lots of loves before finding the right one. Some other people find their love straight away.

Do you think people who find their love straight away are missing out? Or just lucky?

2007-02-28 15:13:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out my 27 year old ex is dating someone 52. Who has a son older than us.

Now he can date who he wants, I don't really care. I am just curious - GUYS, what would be appealing about a woman who is so much older than you?

2007-02-28 15:12:54 · 19 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

If you give someone life-changing relationship advice and they act upon it, are you responsible if there is a negative outcome?

2007-02-28 15:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by ozzman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a half sister that was black sheeped by my family about 10 years ago, when i was 8 and she was ten.... i recently got a phone number of hers and i desperately want to call it, but i am SOOO scared or rejection. now im 20 and shes about 22. should i call her? and what should i say????? please help me im so sad....

2007-02-28 15:12:45 · 18 answers · asked by Uranium_Lopez 2 in Family

I'm 17.... and the girl I'm talking about is my girlfriend. I have much deeper, more personal feelings for her. But I cannot disagree with the fact that she's beautiful and I find her attractive as hell!!!! But will constant fantasizing help/hurt the relationship?

2007-02-28 15:12:42 · 4 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Singles & Dating

I went to a pre-marriage guidance course back in 2004 and the lecturer came up with this. I was wondering till now and really couldn't make up my mind cause i can't get the answer. I'm getting married soon this mid-year. i hope there's someone who could explain to me who and why. (The course i attended is a must for Islamic couples intending to get married.)

2007-02-28 15:12:40 · 13 answers · asked by Nora D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive noticed a lot of ques asking guys why they cheat and why they only care bout looks and so on...not saying all women are this way because ive seen plenty of answers from women sticking up for the men...not just on here either ...jus seems like a very bad sterotype for men when its a very low percentage...any thoughts anyone

2007-02-28 15:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by yea boy1 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 15:11:06 · 6 answers · asked by shelly63795 3 in Weddings

I'm 13 but my parents still think I'm five! What do I do???

2007-02-28 15:10:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm an independent single mom whose been told that although I'm very attractive, I'm intimidating to men because I'm independent and intelligent. How can I put a man at ease so he won't feel intimidated by me?

2007-02-28 15:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by tinagoomba 1 in Singles & Dating