so i have this boyfriend but he live accross the country. i love him a lot but theirs this guy and my school who i am also kinda dating.... i love them both equal but i just dont know what to do, i dont want to hurt either of them but thats all its really doing.........can you help.....please....?
2007-02-28 15:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by mz.nezbit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right to do something about it....instead of letting the one across country feel as if you are just true to him....be honest and explain to him that it is not fair to all concerned to live like you are "going steady" ..that it's best for you both to date others and when you meet again you can pick up where you left off....this way if the relationship is really special you will see when you come in contact again....you need to get your education and not be worrying about someone who is so far away ...enjoy the friends you have right where you are...until you are out of school and on your own....if you save yourself for the one far away....you will miss out of so much fun..right in your own hometown...so get out and enjoy life...and at the same time keep in touch with the other one across the country. he can always be a BEST FRIEND...just that he is distant...best of luck,
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-02-28 15:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't love both equally or each is different. If your boyfriend lives permanently across the country then need to be realisitic for at your age the relationship can't last and you two should talk and agree to date different people. If he is only across the cpountry for a short time then you are fickle and shouldn't be in any one person relationship for do not have the ability to be true and you should still talk to him and explain you are not ready for a serious relationship for young and want to experience life and not tied down. Either way only you know how you are and what you wish to have out of life -be honest with yourself and you boyfriends
2007-02-28 15:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all You don not love both of them .............you need to let the long distance relationship go, eventually one of you will stray and one of you will get hurt. Cut ties now and save yourself some misery...
2007-02-28 15:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by tds_1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a teenager you should probabaly forget about the long distsnce guy,It's short lived,look at what is in front of you.
2007-02-28 15:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by kimmysue34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are SURE you love both equal? usually in these situations you love one more. if i were you i would go for the close one. if you don't want to hurt either one, then break it to them very, very gently.
2007-02-28 15:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the long distance guy will understand if you want to date another guy...just tell the guy across the country..that the distance is not working for you..and if you were meant to be together, you would be closer together...try this new guy on for size....
2007-02-28 15:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different kind of loves. When you truly find the one you will not want any other.
2007-02-28 15:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by pennsygirl41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you going to do! You going to keep both of them until one of them piss you off enough to drop them! Play on playa!
2007-02-28 15:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by jammas_1472 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋