I'm 17.... and the girl I'm talking about is my girlfriend. I have much deeper, more personal feelings for her. But I cannot disagree with the fact that she's beautiful and I find her attractive as hell!!!! But will constant fantasizing help/hurt the relationship?
2007-02-28 15:12:42 · 4 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong w/fantasizing about your girl. If you 2 aren't into sex yet its a perfect way to let out the anticipation excitement. If you are, but you're doing it when she's not available there's nothing wrong with that either. Just shows she works for you in several ways. Only prob is if you fantasize instead of spending live time w/her. Then you're avoiding a perfectly normal teen situation. I'm no teen anymore but I still fantasize about my girl when she's not around.
2007-02-28 15:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is for the movies and not real life. You should speak with a Christian Youth Leader; they have a lot of experience and solutions for the things that we experience....give um a chance - you will be so glad you did and you will have many new girl/guy friends to talk things over with ....
Keepin it real...
Sista C
2007-02-28 23:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by sista c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing hurts unless you both are fantasizing together.
2007-02-28 23:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only help.... but it will help the most once you two are close enough to share those fantasies... that's when things get good.
2007-02-28 23:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by HoneyLegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋