Ive noticed a lot of ques asking guys why they cheat and why they only care bout looks and so on...not saying all women are this way because ive seen plenty of answers from women sticking up for the men...not just on here either ...jus seems like a very bad sterotype for men when its a very low percentage...any thoughts anyone
2007-02-28 15:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by yea boy1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not saying ppl dont care bout looks ...i do too ya know...im just saying that it seems to me that guys get this nagging stereotype that guys will only have something to do with someone else if they are good looking
2007-02-28 15:26:20 · update #1
I'm tired of men getting a bad rep on here too. Most women who say men only care about looks are women who have been rejected by some man that wouldn't give them the time of day. Ladies...Who gives a S**T about some guy that isn't interested, don't take it as an ego blow, go out and find someone that thinks you're beautiful, inside and out. SO WHAT if they guy you have a crush on isn't into you but digs the chic with the tiny waist and the huge breasts, there's another man out there. We come in all shapes, sizes and colors for a reason... so there's someone for everyone.
2007-02-28 15:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by flow_mj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never ever cheat.. never did.. nevr will.. thats not to mean i didnt fool around..(thats a screen out factor.. i dont get involved with GOOD LIL GIRLS LOL)) but it was all by up front agreement and 99.9% of the time my significant other was with me at the time.. Now as for looks?? OK I'll admit it I'm shallow.. looks count... and even my X's would/will agree with that... Now that sounds harsh.. but let me put it to you this way.. I look pretty damn good.. particularly for my age (hell I look good for a 20 something at age 48) OK so the question is.. if they dont give a rats *** what they look like (the chick) Umm why should I care? Make an effort at least eh?
its not PC but its true.. at least for me.. looks do count.. they dont count fr everything TRUE some of the best looking women I've ever knows were BORING(particularly sexualy).. its a balance.... I require looks.. intelligence.. and attitude... otherwise? Eh I'll watch Leno..
And looks are the easiest.. I can make just about anyone look good with the right make up and dress.. and yeah i can do both VERY well.. and I have references...
2007-02-28 15:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can think of is that the women have been hurt in the past and use that anger towards men. It is not right to do this as most men and women are not all about cheating and all about looks. It's a common stereotype. When you love someone and they hurt you, you tend to become angrier towards the other gender, thus affecting your comments. These people need to realize that we are all different and we aren't all about what the media portrays us to be. There are good people out there!
2007-02-28 15:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because most guys are like that dude
if you dont believe me go around school or somewhere and ask different guys if they rather date a fat chick or a thin chick???
Betcha most of them say thin
The guys that try to get to know a girl can't do that real well if the girl thinks he's a cheater i support what your saying dude
2007-02-28 15:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Wis-Can-Sin Boi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction they comprehend that seems final consistently, teenager romances are purely for a chortle and for the 2d (nicely maximum of them are). Its purely for experimenting, kinda element of the preparation technique and for that reason a woman is for sure going to wanna date somebody warm on the grounds that's what all human beings is for sure involved in. perchance if we've been talking severe long term relationship then this may well be a different tale.
2016-10-16 23:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like anything, a bad experience can give you a bad outlook toward men as a whole... I try to just judge people by what I know about them personally, not by what others have done or said.
2007-02-28 15:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it must be a higher percentage than you think, like you said, so many women on here say this..
2007-02-28 15:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by untuhchabul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they project their own way of thinking onto men. Women are exceedingly shallow.
2007-02-28 15:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol...i am a girl, and i have noticed this to. Quite frankly, it's a sign that they need a hobby! lol
and they probably have very low self confidence
...( but that's just my opinion ; )
2007-02-28 15:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people care only about looks, including both men and women.
don't worry about it, people are just voicing their opinions.
2007-02-28 15:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by wordsofapoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋