They own a home together. My mom lives in it and my brother does not. Each year my mom has to pay 400.00 in land taxes, but she has let them go two years and there is a lean on the house. My mom is still not paying them and my brother is forced to to stop the house from being auctioned.
My mom thinks that he should have split the price with her in the first place and then they would not have gotten this bad, and my brother thinks my mother is irresponsible.
Here is the catch though my brother once let them go to 1400.00 dollars and my mom paid them off on her own. So, who do you think is in the wrong?
Because they are not talking I am forced to relay messages( only important things) and then they get mad at me instead of each other. What do I do? My mom says she does not want my brother at her funeral and I am scared that she means it.
This is causing me much stress and I am actually loosing sleep at night.
2007-02-28 15:22:23 · 4 answers · asked by Magzilla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a house that has been in our family for generations, auctioning it is NOT an option. I'm 19 and trying to make a life of my own going to school and working and can't afford to pay off 1100.00, it would be putting myself at risk.
2007-02-28 18:02:35 · update #1
what the f=uck are you doing in the middle of this love your brother and your mother .when she tells you she don't want him at her funeral tell her she my out live him and then what .don't be played by this .they are grown ups let them be just that .do not offer advice nor be helpful if what you do well hurt either won .what a bunch of childish rat finks to have you troubled with this and all because you love them they don't deserve you .but you need them if not then well you do need them that is clear .money what a bi=tch
2007-02-28 16:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were your mom and brother arguing when she paid the bills for him? If not, and she didnt tell him to pay her back, technically he isnt responsible for paying them now, but that is his mother and no matter how hard to live wit she may be he should still respect her. But she should also respect him because hes her son. Your mother shouldnt be puttin you in the middle anyways. And she shouldnt ever say stuff like not wantin her won son at her funeral. Have you tried talkin to both of them and lettin them kno how much this is botherin you? If not you should. And tell your brother, even if he didnt do anything wrong, just to try and apologize to your mother, because mothers tend to believe that they are always right and i doubt that she will apologize to him. I hope everything gets better soon, and try not to go insane
2007-02-28 15:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pay the money and auction the house off giving each one wat they r entitled to.U need to stop being the guinea pig in the middle no more relaying messages for them. For goodness sake they r adults and need to start acting like it.
2007-02-28 16:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋