Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."
So is this bombshell #1?
He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.
Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...
I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."
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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?
2007-02-28 15:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd love to sleep with him, date him, marry him, die and be buried next to him...I'm just asking if his statements mean he is interested in me or was it one of those comments that only "sounded" like it.
2007-02-28 16:04:50 · update #1
No. You are reading between the lines very well. That's exactly what he is saying, he is nervous about how to move it to the next level though. He has probably been thinking about it since the first time he was in the room. Because he is nervous he is bringing it up in a semi-silly, non threatening, kind of "hypothetical" situation to gage your openness to the idea. He's being shy and coy, and trying not to bulldoze you into bed and "conquer" you. He wants it to happen sweetly and with respect it sounds like. I would say make him squirm a little and let him chase a little more and if you decide that you do in fact want to take it "there", then go for it!
2007-02-28 16:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by AZrunner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes trying to be a little sneaky and push his luck, without pushing your buttons... i wouldnt spend too much time in your room with him anymore... work on the computer some other time, or with a girl or something.... OR try telling him that he wont ever get in your bed, and you dont appreciate the way he brought it up, reguardless of what his intentions were... be honest wtih him, and set him striaght right off the bat... but yeah, i would def. cut down on the time he spends with you alone in your room...
2007-02-28 23:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like that what he looking at, so be aware of this, you need
to stop him from comming in your room that not good, that
could lead to things that you might not be ready for the fact
that he a crush, not your boyfriend. get the point.
2007-03-01 00:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-02-28 23:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was hinting around!
And being he hadn't mentioned anything like this before, he's INTERESTED!
And, what would be your answer to his comment?
2007-03-01 00:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he was initiating the conversation on sex to see what your reaction would be. Also, he could be doing it so that you know that he wants to have sex with you...but mostly to see how you'd react.
2007-02-28 23:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by catalina_love2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a cold shower call me in the morning
2007-03-01 00:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy, he likes you.
Of COURSE he's like sex ! Duh.
BUT- he's not pressuring you. Just letting you know he's interested.
2007-02-28 23:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're over-analyzing because you're thinking about sleeping with him. ;)
2007-02-28 23:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL , TELL ME, WHAT MAN DOES NOT WANT TO SLEEP WITH A WOMAN?????
2007-02-28 23:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋