My sister moved out about 3months ago and I miss her so much she still lives in the same city but she's to busy working or with her boyfriend... all i want to do is hang with her, but it seems like she doesn't want to do anything with me anymore. What should I do?
2007-02-28 16:20:47 · 17 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call her and ask if she would like to spend a Sunday w/ you just bumming around doing girl stuff.I'm sure she will make time for you!!
2007-02-28 16:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her how you feel. Explain that you love and miss her. Maybe you could meet for lunch one day. It may be that she is extremely busy which does not mean that she does not want to be with you. I am sure that she loves you very much and the time will come when you can spend more time together. This may just be a bad time and she may be enjoying her new freedom. She probably doesn't even know how you feel so I would tell her in a nice way. Good Luck!!
2007-02-28 16:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww, you sound soooo sad sweetheart!!! I know this is going to happen to my little girl when big sis leaves too, but just know that she is NOT by any means ignoring you honey she is just finding out more about life...Her life........Im sure once she gets all settled in she will come over and pick you up and let you stay the weekends or just on nights when she does not have to work. Call her up and tell her just how much you really do miss her and she will probably come and get you alot sooner than you think honey. She probably honestly just does not realize how much you are missing her right now!!! Give her a call...Good luck sweetie and i hope she comes to spend some time with you soon...God Bless you and your sister . there is nothing in the world better than brother or sisterly love and you definately have it for your sister.......
2007-02-28 16:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by littleEfan25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she is busy working or enjoying her newfound freedom does not mean she does not think of you or care about you or even wish to see you also ...... give her a call or send a brief note expressing that you miss her and would love to get together sometime and have lunch or catch a movie, etc.....once reestablish the contact - go from there!
Appreciate each other while you can!
2007-02-28 16:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry; I am the younger sister too and later on you will be doing all sorts of things together again. I don't know your age difference but no matter...you will be very important in her life again...until then, start going to a Christian Church and join up with their Youth or College groups, you won't be missing anyone much.
Sisters are Sisters and Best Friends Forever...
Sista C
2007-02-28 16:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by sista c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Shes your sister and she will understand, sometimes things like that happen when your busy. Ask her whens shes free to do anything and ask if you guys wants to see a movie, shop, eat out, or go somehwere. You both should have fun and have some sister time. Because youre lucky you have a sister and and older person to look up to.
Take Care
2007-02-28 16:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel cuz my sister moved out about 6 months ago. we dont really get to hang out that much anymore. Just have a talk with her and tell her how you feel. and you guys can plan a day to hang out.
2007-02-28 16:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥istillovehim420♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man.. this question hit me hard... i moved out too.. and i have lost contact with my sister..... its not that i meant too, but i work nights and i work on the weekends... so its really hard for me to see her... i miss hanging out with her, but i do call her just to at least say hi and see how she is doing... im sure your sister misses you too, but things change when you move away and then theres the bf..... i spend more time with my bf then my sister as well.. but i love my sister and i think its time i took some time to have a girls night out again... just talk to your sis.. let her know that you want to hang out one night... just to catch up on things and be together.. good luck
2007-02-28 16:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a sisters sleepover to catch up on things, you may not be able to hang out with her as often so when you do make it fun and a quality filled time.
2007-02-28 16:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call and organise to meet up sometime soon, so you both can have some quality time together. Suggest that you should make it a regular thing like once a month or something like that.
2007-02-28 16:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋