Im 18, and my girlfriends just turned 17. Ive known her for a max of 6 months with a long 10 month gap near the middle. She would call this "over a year" i call it just over 6 months. But thats not the problem. A long time ago i was the "other guy", and she was seeing me on the other side, her boyfriend at the time tricked her into 'loving' him using pot, alcohol, and sex (which he got her to do by telling her she was the only one and he loved her.) So she finally got rid of me and went and did her thing with him. When we next met, she'd gotten beaten by him, broken up/ made up with him several times, i know for a fact she tried to get back at him by having drunk sex with one of her friends. And she had a miscarrage with the origional boyfriend EVEN after the abuse towards the end of thier relationship. What i want to know or would like help with is how to cope with our relaionship. I have a hard time trusting her, after she told me about sleeping around... etc... but i DO love her.
2007-02-28 16:19:56 · 3 answers · asked by lecrackzor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What more can you expect when she was with you when she was with her boyfriend.
The one good thing is that she came clean and told you her past and shared. Let her know how you are feeling. Trust comes with time and it's something that is developed in a relationship.
2007-02-28 17:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lonely Bàstard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to love a guy not a girl. Dont waste your body on a girl.
2007-02-28 16:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how you are feeling
2007-02-28 16:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by smiling.hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋