My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. We're getting older and realizing that as young adults we need to build our own foundations FIRST before jumping into selfish desires.
Any stories are inspirational words??? or actually, movies that show love being stronger the second time? and do YOU believe that love is stronger and better the second time around?
2007-02-28 16:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best relationship is one that has developed from a friendship and the longer the friendship the better the relationship. But then if your not sure, why ruin a friendship when you know a relationship won't work out?
Sometimes your lucky to have a strong foundation when two work at it then you have stuff to look back on when your older
The main thing that I now realize - when you marry someone, know that your making a committment to the man above and it's a promise that under no circumstance should be broken.
Good luck and remember that it really is nice to grow with someone - through good and bad times.
2007-02-28 16:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by STAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It most certainly can be better the second time around. You have gained knowledge and wisdom that will make you a better lover friend and partner in life. However life is very uncertain and How many tomorrows do we have? Take this love and enjoy. If it works fantastic if it doesn't life is an adventure with which etch in our minds so many memories . Don't leave with an empty canvas.
Best of luck.
2007-02-28 16:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by stephenmwells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think were actually in love the first time because we arent quite sure. so the second time around is when it really hits you. you know what you want and you thought the first time was it, but now your blown away by how wrong you were and how great love actually is. if your in love you cant stop it, so why did the two of you decide to wait? if its love than why waste it, you should spend all the time you have together now, you cannot predict the future. you can still establish yourselves but you could also help eachother, there is nothing selfish in that.
2007-02-28 16:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is great no matter how many times you experience it. You will fall in and out of love for many things in your lifetime and that's just a part of life. Appreciate it when it comes your way and learn from it when it doesn't go in your favor. Always follow your heart and you can accomplish many great things from it.
2007-02-28 16:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch wicker park.
-NmD!
2007-02-28 16:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be, might not be.
2007-02-28 16:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋