I had an affair with this guy almost a year ago. I constantly think about him and sometimes think I still have deep feelings for him. He screwed me over a few times so whenever I think good things about him I remind myself that he bad mouthed me to people and everything else he did that was wrong....but I STILL think GOOD about him! Why!
2007-02-28 16:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he was the first to cut you deeply. Bear in mind that first cut is always the deepest. "ding dong!"
2007-02-28 17:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Beta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you keep thinking about him because you like him,and so if you doubt all the bad things he's done,you would go back to him. if he screwed you over and embarrassed you in public,then thats a bad thing to doubt. it happened and if you forgive him he might do it again. just try to make the right choice.
2007-03-01 00:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something good, or special quality about him, that makes you wonder about him constantly. Maybe, he is a bad boy, but the best lover that you ever had.
2007-03-01 00:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i STRONGLY recommend therapy, you will not be happy in this relationship, he's a bad guy, get away from him.
there's something up with childhood.
2007-03-01 00:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by invalidalpha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because no matter how much they want to convince themselves otherwise, all women want bad boys.
2007-03-01 00:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rob D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who knows.
2007-03-01 00:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's better than the guy you're with? I dunno..
2007-03-01 01:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ranz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋