What if your husband dont understand you even if you could make him try to understand but will not..and if u and ur husband practically fight all the time...oh and even this...if you have depression the man that i supposly love dont want to understand my depression...what i am saying is the man dont understand me at all...
2007-02-28 17:48:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop prolonging the inevitible roller coaster ride and divorce the poor guy so he can get on with his life. Don't look for justification for it, some people will understand your side and some won't. Either way, carry your azz out the door and the sooner or better. Your indecision and awkwardness is only going to make you a really worthless wife even if you stay there, so get the hell out and let him have a chance of finding someone he can be happy with.
2007-02-28 17:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying that your spouse, partner or whoever doesn't understand you is a pretty broad statement and it smacks of rationalizing a justification for doing something you know you shouldn't. If you value your marriage at all, you must do everything in your power to save it. Look into couples counseling, demand he not ignore you or your feelings. Scream, yell, do whatever it takes to save your marriage and make it clear to your husband that it takes top priority. That way, you won't be left wondering if you made a mistake two years down the road, and you may just save something very special. Don't give up.
2007-03-01 02:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are this sure , you could separate for a while. If convinced, have a break up. Move on. Life is too short. Maybe both of you will be better this way.
Don't live with depression. It's worse than death.
2007-03-01 01:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so depressed it is time to walk out.
2007-03-01 04:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both get drunk then talk.
2007-03-01 02:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋