I tought motor driving to my daughter due to love and affection. I and she, both are working / earning. She never ask me: What do you want? What I can do for you? What is your choice in eating?
I want lassi. She: 'No'. I want food without onion. She likes onion. She: 'You will have to eat food cooked by me / by mother. You have to eat'. I can live without food. I am ready to eat outside.
If I am silent, all is OK, but if I express my desire / need / taste, all shout on me. All ladies beats me. Am I begger?
I am ready to eat food of their choice for 6 days but should not they cook food for me for choice at least 1 day in week. On that day, they can cook of their choice for them. I never say: You eat of my choice. Should I expect anything from children. Give and take in love. If I am silent can I show love for my family? If I speak, I am bad, mad. If I am silent, I am bad. I am bad in the eye of all. If I tolerate silently, all is good, all are glad. Can a sad person become glad?
2007-02-28 17:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this happens in most of the families.you should not be submissive to your family members. tell them in an assertive way what you want.
2007-02-28 18:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by nightingale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so bad why not stop paying the bills, buying food and providing for your family. If they don't care what you want, think or feel, they won't care about losing your money either. See how they like living on your daughters salary. Seems like you don't wear the pants in the family. Take a stand Dad, do something radical like lay down the law. They walk all over you and you let them. Don't freak out and kill anyone or even hit anyone for that matter. Write a speech and memorize it. Use the voice God gave you. If you want this to eat, make it yourself or leave and go out to eat by yourself, if they don't want to go, piss on 'em. Even if they do want to go, tell them no. They don't deserve it, anyways.
2007-03-01 01:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expectations bring in sorrow. Don't expect anything from the ones around you. Specially when you love them the most. Just discuss your state of mind with them. Probably they will understand. Let them know that these issues are actually making you feel as if you are kicked aside. They will understand your concern.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-01 16:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get depressed my friend ,when a man gets married it is like he has sacrificed his life totally to his family ,to his children ,to his wife ,when he has sacrificed everything to them
then no point being depressed. that doesn't mean they don't love you ,they don't care for you .They always love because you are every thing for them.
2007-03-01 02:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
common be panjabi jat
kick on the ladies *** and make them realise that u r man
its ok u do lot for them its ur moral duty but ofcoarse if they dont understand u make them understand that they are if ur with themshow then ur identity
2007-03-01 02:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the question again when you're sober.
2007-03-01 02:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋