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we went out for about 18months..its a long distance relationship..we never had any communication after a month dat we broke up..one night..he called me using private number..askin how am i doing....n tells me to wait for him bcoz 1 day he will be infront of me...calls me babe..n tells dat he loves me b4 hangin up da phone..now..its been almost a yr dat never heard from him...i had few relationships but didnt work...bcoz...my heart and my brain tells me dat i stil love him..even tho i tried so hard to forget him....

2007-02-28 18:28:43 · 14 answers · asked by worried 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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hey, you know its very easy to think you love someone especially when they are away. the way he is acting does not seem like someone who is in love. never settle for second best in life and love. you deserve the best so expect the best also. i think he is invoved with someone else and when he does not have anything to do thats when he calls you and fills your head with that. but dont listen to him move on and give someone else a chance. you will miss out on love and its so wonderfull especially with the right person who returns your love. think about it

2007-02-28 20:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by catstev 1 · 1 0

This would be a tough one if it had only been a couple months of you not hearing from him, but a year? come on, that's too long to not talk to someone. Honestly though, I say the same thing he said to you to someone long distance that I like, and it's actually hard to say. In my head that's the person I really want to be with, but until we can close the distance, I just keep on with life. Have you tried to contact him within that year? If so, find a picture of him, rip it up, and move on. If not, send him a message, (and if possible, an email with some cute pics- grab his attention) I did that with someone I hadn't spoken to in almost a year, and got a good response. And they still weren't taken.

2007-02-28 18:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by zhang 2 · 0 0

ill tell u somethin i broke with my bf since 3 yrs and i never dated any one in these 3 yrs then after the 3 yrs i saw a guy and loved him alot and found that i was wrong through these 3 yrs so u will forget him if he doesnt care about u can c if he still loves u then try to get him if he doesnt care live ur life and u will forget him....good luck.

2007-02-28 18:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You sound like a really lonely girl that will delude herself into seeing love where there is anything but love... C'mon be honest with yourself, there's no way in hell you could "love" such an obvious moron as the guy you described.

Forget the long-distance romance crap, get off your butt and start going out to mingle in your own town where you can meet real people.

2007-02-28 18:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 1 0

He is gone from your life. I hate to say this but his most likely in a relationship by now and move on completely. It is hard to release a romantic love sometimes. Time will heal. When you finally get your heart back you can then give it to someone else.

2007-02-28 18:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-10-02 03:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It was over long ago. If you're not over it yet you really need to get some professional help. It seems that many people are suffering with this problem lately... Talk to a doctor because if you're not over it at this point it's about YOU, NOT the OTHER PERSON. YOU deserve to GET some HELP.

2007-02-28 18:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 2 · 0 0

if it has been a year my under standing it is time for you to move on o know it is hard but if he wanted you he wouldn,t have let you go his lost some one else gain in time you well get over him try not to think a bout it you can do it . best of luck to you

2007-02-28 18:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1 0

dear surprise him in phone, call him, maybe he feel the same but shy to ask... dear shock him let him remember that u are the only one, and can't live without him... dear u just hidden the truth, tell him now before tomorrow will be late... say hii to him on the phone let him remember u let him missing u, maybe u come back together again Amen... good luck

2007-02-28 18:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Move on.... That's what I would do... It's not fair for him to have laid a line like that on you... and as you say it's been a year?? you have the patience of Job!!! look around there's plenty more where he came from......

2007-02-28 18:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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