I'm not trying to sound insensitive but I'm tired of hearing about my ex's problems. We broke up because HE neglected ME. And ever since we've been broken up he's been trying to make me feel guilty for everything and he keeps whining to me about how his life sucks, yet when I ask him if he wants to work things out and get back together, he says no. I mean, I've been compassionate and sincere to his problems this entire time since 2 months ago when we broke up, but I'm getting very irritable. I've been trying to keep a friendship going with him because I dont want to lose contact with him, but all he ever talks about is how depressed he is. It's like he wants me to pity him. Is he forgetting that he's the one who neglected me and lied to me and ignored me during our relationship? I cant take it anymore, I've been trying very hard to be nice to this point so we can remain friends, but I just cant take it.
But at the same time I cant stand not ever talking to him again :(
2007-02-28 18:20:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to decide if you want to keep listening to his crap or quit talking to him!~
2007-02-28 18:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, stop taking his calls for a while. Get a spine. And stand not talking to him. The relationship didn't work and now the friendship isn't working. Cut the d@mn cord already.
2007-03-01 02:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look... you gotta grow up sometime! You're as bad as him, only in a different way!
Dump him and get on with your life or he will tear it down for you! Why would "anyone" waste their own precious time with such a man?
Let me emphasize: "Life's too short!" What are you waiting for... move it!!!
2007-03-01 02:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's up to something- He's probably got a passel of chicks and he's trying to keep you around too!
2007-03-01 02:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, and who cares if you hurt his feelings. You guys are not even together, you just want to hurt because you still have feelings for him.
2007-03-01 02:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋