ok I don't need opinions on the situation just the question....if my ex dumped me but not for anything I did....and he said he still likes me he just needed some space for awhile. Well I havent seen him in awhile but he's visiting this weekend...what should I do so that I'm not too pushy, desperate, but that he will realize that he wants to date again? I know I cant make him want to but what should I avoid...and what should I do?
2007-02-28 18:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be aloof, but cordial. Go on about your business & act as if he's the LAST thing on your mind...it drives guys bonkers to know that you don't need them to feel OK about yourself...plus, you having a life of your own is way more attractive than moping around pining over him & what if.
2007-02-28 18:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm and relaxed because both of you were there for a reason. Just be clear about it and who knows it might turn out as the day that you guys might get patched up together again. If it's destined than there's nothing for you to be worried about. Good Luck!...
2007-03-01 02:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by syooq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you couldn't care less.
And if he wants to come back ,don't make it with out explanations on his part .You deserve better .
2007-03-01 02:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
controll ur exitement be calm & normal at the same time don't act reserve be as if nothing happened which means u won't die without him
2007-03-01 02:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Andy CashKing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax andjust treahim as one of your friend . maybe you shall just date someone and he'll realized that he dont want that space anymore.
2007-03-01 02:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by buffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just saying he dumping, but still like you so he can see other girls, and come back to you when it doesn't work out with the other girls.
2007-03-01 02:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by J C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. Stay natural. No game playing.
2007-03-01 02:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself
People likes you because you're you
2007-03-01 02:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋