I was 18 at the time. I gave this guy my heart and soul. (Big mistake) Of course he played games and I let him. (Another big mistake) I though that if I stuck with him through the good and the bad he would see that I was the one for him. (BIG MISTAKE). SO it's been about 1 year since we have stopped talking totally. He has moved on with his life and so have I but I still feel myself lusting over him and then regretting him for leaving me. But my problem now is that I’m a hard a** to guys. To protect my feelings. And as you may know I’m not getting any where being like that. I know that I have to change the way I think about man but it is so much easier said then done. So what I guess I'm asking is how can you let your guard down to be able to give the next guy your all? No baggage.
2007-02-28 17:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 23 now
2007-02-28 17:53:32 · update #1
Hey,
So .....dnt let ur guard down. Enjoy the other finer things in life. don't look for a relationship and do not entertain men. What will happen is that wen the healing process is done, there will be one man who will go one more step to getting to know u. That is when u follow ur gut and let u guard done. Stuff gets u when u least expected it. Dnt wait for it...itl comeee
-PArth
2007-03-01 06:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by buried_my_bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for a relationship. Focus on the things you like and you will meet a guy with similar interests so it won't be 'work' to be with him.
2007-03-01 01:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem! please! you need to focus on yourself first. go to school, make money, and do you. hang with friends and say NO to guys for now. after 6-12mos then look for that guy but i'm sure he'll be coming to you.
2007-03-01 01:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by mh.mlb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋