Guys,would you marry a girl who can't do housework?

Question

I never do housework at home,I don't know how to do it,plus,I don't want to do it.My mother said no one would marry me in the future.After I went to other city for education,I have to do a little housework such as cleaning the dorm,and do my laundry.But many times when I washing my clothes,my hands got hurt and bleeding.
I'm not worried about that.

I don't like to use washing machine,because it my clothes won't be cleaned perfectly.I don't know why my hands are hurt but it's true,I wash like my roommates do,but only me get hurt

Answer 1

hello there, from the position your picture is taking, I think it is more painful to sit like that than wash a load of laundry.

Its not about housework, its about sharing in a marraige...if you can't do housework, what can you do to contribute into a happy marriage. ??

Answer 2

I am in my third marriage and none of my partners have ever been any good or interested in housework. My wife can make tea without burning the water, at least most of the time.
It has never been an issue with me about housework. I don't believe that a woman should be chained to the kitchen sink but should have intelligence and personality.

Answer 3

You can get all household works done by an assistant for a wage but ,if they don't turn out for a day or two how will you manage?
If you are lucky you get a nice guy for the sake of your golden hand but even then,if he is away for a day or two,how will you manage?
It is not difficult to learn things,and you will learn in due course of time.
Suppose,you get married ,you get a child,you may have to do a lot many things for the child which you may not know or like,but nothing like the mother doing for her own child.
Baby ,you have to grow to your age an better learn things and be a lovable heart for your life partner.
Wish you good luck!

Answer 4

Absolutely not.

Women need to be capable of doing housework. After all, when they stay home after childbirth, they need to be able to get things done around the house.

You should still learn how to do housework . There are cases where you may have to do the housework (like if your wife is sick or if she does take a higher paying job than you - you will need to then stay home).

However, if the woman refuses to do housework, then there is a problem.

Answer 5

Well first off I have to say thank you... I showed this to my husband who now thinks I am the greatest wife in the world considering you don't do any housework and I do all of it in my house. It made my husband appreciate me more...

Second of all, In any relationship it is a compromise He helps you... you help him... You should both be doing housework.

Third... If you are getting bloody hands while doing the wash than you got some problems girl... What are you washing them by hand?!?

Answer 6

Your hands hurt and bleed when you do laundry because they are not use to "soft" work, or you could have an allergy to laundry detergent. You need to learn how to do house work, and it's something that both partners should share. So if a man marries a woman just to "clean" his house, that's an unfair relationship; and likewise if you can't clean, well you need to learn before you get married. Check your allergy and put on gloves, or buy hyperallegenic detergent and move on up the cleaning ladder.

Answer 7

Your mother is old fashioned. Men want partners not a cleaning lady. However, who wants to be with a pig. If you do not like to do housework then you need to get a good education and high paying job so you can get hired help.

Answer 8

There is guys that would be happy to marry you and do the house work if you make all the money. There are guys that would marry you if you was the best they ever had in bed. Not me you would have to clean a little and cook a little or I would hire maid to take your place. Are you looking to support a man by your job? if not listen to your Mom.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Why not? Guys can do housework too.

Note: It would be nice if both partners made efforts to do whatever they can to ease the load of housework for each other. Naturally if you married someone who can't do housework, you have to be prepared to think of ways to handle it by yourself or otherwise.