Ok so basically I've come to the wise for help. I am 15 and have my girlfriend. We do love each other very much and we have great fun times with each other. We've been going out for about year and a half and everything seems perfect. But now my family wants to move out of state to the west. (I live in NY) Probably I won't be able to see her at all. Any advice guys?? I've told my family the main reason why I want to stay and that I would work if money is the problem. They said it's not and deny to tell me the reason why. XD why should I do??
2007-02-28 17:23:24 · 7 answers · asked by SilverFox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just go along with whatever your parents are going to do. You can always have a long distance relationship with your girlfriend, and this way you will find out if it was for real. If the two of you are meant to be together, distance won't stand in the way.
2007-02-28 17:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man I feel for ya. If your family is moving, then your family is moving, not too much you can do about that. My best advice is to at least try and keep a long-distance relationship. If you find that it's not working out in the future, then you'll have to break it off. Sorry to hear.
2007-02-28 17:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sky Watcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well letting go of your love is hard but remember, everything happens for a reason. If you move its for a reason, you can meet your true love. But I understand that you'e in love but theres not much you can do. Unless you can persuade your parents into letting you stay. Well good luck!
2007-02-28 17:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is love, real love, then it will survive the separation until you guys are able to be together again, it will just take effort on yours and your girls part. 15 is young and you need the guidance of your parents, they love you too. I do think it is a little unreasonable for them to not explain their thinking to you though!
2007-02-28 17:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by minimouse68 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your family that u are in love.
This is real and not infatuation.
Even when u shift u can meet her online or on weekends, which your family must agree.
Dont lie to them.
2007-02-28 17:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by man_vir_in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move wherever your parents tell you to move and get over your puppy love. At your age, it wasn't going to last for a lifetime anyway.
2007-02-28 17:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're too young to be that in love, trust me, I recommend you move and keep in touch on myspace...good luck
2007-02-28 17:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋