I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her
2007-02-28 17:40:47 · 14 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That is why I am going to keep her until one of us dies. When I am 65 years old, I can have sex with my to-be-wife instead of paying money to have sex with whores and get STD's. Good plan. eh? No, I am not in love with her. I will not let myself fall in love with her. If I do fall in love with her and she dies, I will be ever so depressed. That is suppose to be girlfriend or to-be-wife in the 1st sentence, we haven't married yet. I plan to marry her. I want to be with her until one of us dies so I can have sex with her. I am her true love, but too bad, I don't love her though. I don't have any feelings for her.
2007-02-28 17:40:54 · update #1
FYI...sex isn't everything. Not only that, but if you marry her chances are you will eventually bring children into a loveless marriage (since all you're doing is having sex anyway).
If you were truly, honestly her friend you would let her know how you really feel and cut her loose so she can find someone who will really love her.
2007-03-01 00:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but whoever starred this question needs to have their head examined. Not sure what the deal is with these guys, other than to tick people off and litter YAnswers with their crap. Most likely if it sounds to crazy to be true, it probably is. Look at his earlier questions....2 days ago he was 30 and the gf was 29. Kind of funny how he's aged 3 years in 3 days and she's only aged 1.
2007-03-01 08:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you can't love her. And why can't you? I think you do, you just don't want to admit it. Why think about death and depression? Why miss out on something you will never get again? Love is different then sex, that's for sure... And when both work together, you've got the best thing in the world. Even the sex is better. So why can't you suck it up, be a man, and love her
2007-03-01 02:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by classical_maniac101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew your g/f, I would tell her to dump YOU! You are a scoundrel! There is more to life than sex, you know! How horrible! You have stolen 8 years of her life and promised her security, when you have no intention of delivering it. You are the kind of guy that gives REAL men a bad name. If you are a MAN you would marry her. You are nothing more than a rutting dog.
No, what you are doing is wrong, wrong, wrong!
2007-03-01 15:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you do her a favor and let her go. Your selfish and inconsiderate. Why don't you build up the courage and tell her everything you have said here. And let her make the decision if she still wants to stay with you. Your better off with a blow up doll with no emotional tides.
2007-03-01 03:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
weird, dude, you are in denial, you can find another girl to love and to like with sex. dude whatever! YOU LOVE HER! quit being so immature. If were you i will be unsatisfied. I bet if you lose her or she will break your heart you will be devastated. and crawling to her.
2007-03-01 03:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody believes this blog. You have a lot of time on your hands
2007-03-01 08:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long of a question didnt even finsh reading....So u must be wrong
2007-03-01 12:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by chris j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you love her and just don't want to admit it. do not play her though she will find out then you will be really depressed when you lose her.
2007-03-01 02:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prisons are full of women who have had "friends" like you.
2007-03-01 02:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋