I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her
2007-02-28 17:39:37 · 3 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is why I am going to keep her until one of us dies. When I am 65 years old, I can have sex with my to-be-wife instead of paying money to have sex with whores and get STD's. Good plan. eh? No, I am not in love with her. I will not let myself fall in love with her. If I do fall in love with her and she dies, I will be ever so depressed. That is suppose to be girlfriend or to-be-wife in the 1st sentence, we haven't married yet. I plan to marry her. I want to be with her until one of us dies so I can have sex with her. I am her true love, but too bad, I don't love her though. I don't have any feelings for her.
2007-02-28 17:39:44 · update #1
You have a problem. Your leading this Lady on and this is so wrong. You can find sex from anyone, but the worst thing a man or woman can do is lie and say they love someone when they don't. Have you gave any thought to her feelings at all? You need to think what if the shoe was on the other foot. Let her go if you never have any intentions of loving her.
2007-03-03 14:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not having a big problem. First thing is you are using her. Fair enough but problem will come when you truly fall in love with some other girl. Then this whole sex thing will change meaning for you. You can only truly enjoy sex with someone you are madly in love with. So I guess your girl is enjoying more than you do. Before she pops the question to you about marriage, just open up and tell her everything. It is tough for people to let go on desires, but remember if u hang on , you will miss the real beauty of life, True love.
2007-03-04 16:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a big problem!!!!
2007-03-01 02:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by ann l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋