ok, i told this guy that i like him and he told me that he likes me back so i was really excited. but, now he isnt mentioning anything else about it so is our relationship just dead? is it going to go anywhere or what? help!
2007-02-28 17:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by dellcutegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want the relationship to happen..then you have to make it happen...this guy sounds like he is shy..cause if i liked a girl and she told me that she liked me ...i would be on that real fast...(ask u out)...pretty much he wants you to do the work...so starting trucking...give him your number...keep cluing him in that you like him...FIND ANOTHER GUY>>>PLENTY OUT THERE
2007-02-28 17:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off, you don't have a relationship...yet. You've only planted the seed and watered it. Now, it's time to work on growing your 'potential' relationship.
If you don't want to ask him verbally if he still likes you enough to date you, then you can give subtle hints that you are still interested...like a smile here or a lingering stare there. The chase is what they (the boys) are after, so you don't want to be too needy. But, you cannot be cold or else he will think you aren't interested at all. it's a delicate balance. You don't want to play games but you don't want to scare him off...men are a very simple yet delicate species. :-)
The bottom line is, if he is into you, he will let you know. But, you can let him know as well without coming off as too clingy. Remember, you have lots of other things going on in your life, and the boy you are thinking about 24/7 does not need to know how often he is on your mind. You're a busy girl! Boys like busy girls! It shows them that you won't be completely dependent on him in a relationship, and that could be a man's greated fear. It's one thing to want attention, it's another thing to NEED it.
I hope this helped!
2007-02-28 17:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by foreveryoung 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling someone you like them and hearing it in return doesn't qualify as a "relationship".
And if you like someone then learn to be more aggressive because waiting around for the guy to instigate everything is really immature.
2007-02-28 17:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cute that you guys both like each other but if you dont have any common interests i doubt that teh relationship will last, make sure you keep lengthy phone conversations to keep him interested in what your all about...
and btw, nothing is dead, everything just passes on.
2007-02-28 17:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by ifucouldbeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it. Casually. Sounds like he doesn't know how to proceed. Maybe he's thinking the same thing "I told her I liked her, and now she acts like I haven't said anything." Maybe he's feeling just like you. Talk talk talk!
2007-02-28 17:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by lilnickle144 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the girl! you start the conversation! ask what he wants to do next. see a movie, go the the beach! there are a million things to start on, but you first need to initiate!!!!!
2007-02-28 17:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will go somewhere if you 2 start acting on it. right now its just a awkward moment
2007-02-28 17:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go to Mickey D's for your first date and see where it goes from there..
2007-02-28 17:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can do is ask him about it. Noone can really tell you how he feels.
2007-02-28 17:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jami Renee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you this, but there IS no relationship.
2007-02-28 17:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋