Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

So, I have been dating someone for the last year. Known him for the last thirteen years. However, I feel like we have connections but at other times we have none. I love him dearly and don't want to hurt him but I feel like there is nothing to salvage. Then the days I really feel ready to leave he is nice as pie. At the same token there is another person that I have dated on and off not ever serious but have also remained friends with him for the last 15 years. He is the one that gives me the flutters and electric feeling when I am around him. But at the same time I can despise him so much because we have fought over stupid stuff and stopped talking. However everytime I talk to him I always feel that connection and wonder if he feels the same. Need some help!!! Any advice?

2007-02-26 03:18:59 · 6 answers · asked by pattiof 4 in Singles & Dating

Its Hard To Explain But I Dont Get The Feeling I Felt For THis Boy Anymore But..I Still Think About Him Loads Am I Over Him??x

2007-02-26 03:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by chloeebee_x 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to do something rele sweet and romantic for my boyfriend but i dnt no what! i want to do something different and special! please give me some suggestions!

2007-02-26 03:18:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I stared goung out about a month ago (hes 24,im 20). We had sex for the first time on Valentine's day, and he went really quickly,we ahd it again later that night, and the same thing. he sid i 'over stimulated' him. I wanted to have sex last tuesday and he kept saying he was too tired. we ended up having sex quickly and then he stopped without coming and just wanted to cuddle. This weekend, we went away with a bunch of friends. we had our own room and he still didnt try anything. On saturday night, i really wanted to,we were about to then he said he ws tired again. I DONT GET THIS!!! Not to be conceited, but i am a pretty girl. So then what is it? I think we should be having more sex than this...I just dont know how to bring it up without sounding weird. I just REALLY dont understand what the problem is!!!!!!!

Also, i want to spend more time with him, how do i talk to him about this without sounding needy?we are usually out with friends

2007-02-26 03:18:12 · 14 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

k well not literally..my partner cheated on me for 2 yrs, we come frm a muslim bkground so i sometimes feel like he is just with me to keep the family happy, wel i found out he fell in love with this girl and was cheatin on me with her for 2 yrs.wen i confronted him he swore from then on he wouldnt stay in contact with her..recently i found on his phone txts frm him to her sayin he loves her so much and the same frm him to her..y he doing this? he says he loves me..anyway i took his phone off him and everyday last week i found anothr phne on him n took it off him evryday.so evryday he was buyin a phone(jst a cheap 1) just 2 keep in contact with her..he told me he doesnt like nt havin a phne and denied speakin with her but again i found txts on these phones.ive jst had a baby and dnt knw what to do cos he says he loves me..as a muslim girl noone will take me on with a baby its basically imposible.if he bought a phoneeveryday does that mean he will always find a way of contacting her??

2007-02-26 03:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 'seeing' someone who is waiting till im ready and over my ex before we can get into a relation ship, hes lovely but i just cant fall for him in that way no matter how hard i try, hes booked us a weekend away to brussels which he paid for end of marh, i only been seeing him a month. im really scared about hurting him, but i know i need to cos i cant love him. im considering taking my ex back cos he is doing everything in the book to get me back and we had a house together was together 3 years, he just ended it out the blue. how can i let him down gently??

2007-02-26 03:17:22 · 23 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

Can it really mess a person up emotionally if they were molested as a child by their uncle, and the first person they told (their aunt) told them not to tell anyone because he will go to jail and the child will get in trouble? What kind of problems do you think that person will have now?

2007-02-26 03:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I explained to her that I'd forgot to put my contact lenses in and i'd just gone to the wrong washing line. She said she's going to the police. How can I stop her? Do you think that if i bought her a box of quality streets that it would stop her?

2007-02-26 03:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by victor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found online a place to buy anthrax online im not sure how powerful anthrax is but i figure it would make a good prank! Maybe put it in my teachers food or coffee........or just throw it in someones face with water!

2007-02-26 03:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by Terrorist! 1 in Family

Every day my cousin constantly calls me. Twelve times every day! It's very annoying! We dont do anything or even talk. Its just silent hour. Then if I have to go somewhere, she gets all sad and says, "oh okay, but it kinda hurts me" It hurts me too, but I really do have to go. Then she thinks im lying and calls me 2 minutes later! I love her a lot, but this has really got to stop. Anything I can do to break it to her? And please no negative things.

2007-02-26 03:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

girlfriend she's always right there she's so annoying she's always messing with and never leaves him alone and im kool with ger and everything but i dont want her 2 be all on my man like that she know's he hates her and cant stand her so why the hell she there 2 be truthful i think she still has feeling 4 him even though she played silly games with him.

2007-02-26 03:13:03 · 5 answers · asked by LALA 1 in Singles & Dating

This is in the context of the changing social scenario due to globalisation and advent of modern technology and fast and modern life style. In most of the houses both husband and wife have to work, and at the same time are required to look after the needs of the elders and the infirm members in the family. In the Indian society the concept of admitting aged parents in the elders' home is not yet widely accepted yet. Your comments...

2007-02-26 03:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by Avinash V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 03:12:13 · 16 answers · asked by pbm_ratri 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been friends for almost 2 years and have been together for 8 months. We want to and plan on getting married and having a family. I plan on moving in with him and his family this summer after I graduate high school. My parents expect a lot out of me and expect me to live with them for a long time. I get along better with my boyfriends family, then I do my own. I feel more love from his family, then my own. So, my question is what is the best way to tell my parents I plan on moving out without a huge freak out from them, because if you knew my mom, she would defiantly throw a fit...even though she married my father a week after she turned 18.

2007-02-26 03:11:19 · 13 answers · asked by andys_mcr_chick 1 in Family

Hilton, what would you do?

2007-02-26 03:11:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay I have this friend, and her and I are very close friends. she's 25 yrs of age. We spend alot of time together and we just are not intimate because of our friendship. But recently I have express to her that I liked her and she always says she's not ready and when she's ready I will be the first person she will come too. It's been over a year and I don't press the issue. She claims that she's healing from her past.. here is the what I did--- I created a email account and sent her a letter pretending to be some guy showing interest. I sent a picture of some model and we began emailing each other everyday. she don't know it's me but she wrote back to the supposed new guy that she's interested and and she already healed and wants a man now.
why couldn't she just be honest... should I tell her this whole fantasy guy is fake and so is the email address..
It's a shame I had to be sneaky to get the truth out of her.. never string people along it's not right...

2007-02-26 03:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with him. When will I stop missing him?

2007-02-26 03:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by Atousa 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 03:10:26 · 19 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

ok my son just came in from school and asked to go in for friend round the corner.ive said yes and im sitting here wondering if he,s ok!! he,s only started going out on his own and knows the boundarys and i have to say sticking to them .so why is it i feel sick every time he,s out on his own?be back by 5 god i wish it was 5 ....does this feeling go away?.

2007-02-26 03:09:01 · 14 answers · asked by smiler 4 in Family

I don't like confrontation. I don't want people to be angry with me. I don't want to annoy anyone. I look at the way other people act and try to avoid doing the things that annoy or bother me--asking 5 times if I'm supposed to do something when I've been told 6. The problem is that I feel like a doormat. I express my wishes about little things--don't cut my daughter's hair without my permission. They are ignored. I am told to "get off my high horse." I know that they are only little things, but it hurts my feelings. I feel like I'm constantly going out of my way to make everyone else happy and comfortable. I want to keep doing that. I like caring for others. I enjoy making others happy. But it seems that when I stand up for myself--asking why someone deliberately went against my wishes--I'm chastised and told that I'm too impatient and to demanding. It seems that I say, "Just forget about it" to myself every day about something. And it's making my heart hurt.

2007-02-26 03:08:47 · 9 answers · asked by wowee 1 in Family

I am doing a basic informal wedding invite with time and location of the wedding and naming the location and time of the reception. Do I need to have a separate note with full addresses and directions? Or is simply naming location good enough?

2007-02-26 03:08:17 · 17 answers · asked by Knome Lover 4 in Weddings

should i be worried i mean we talked everyday texted everyday and just been together alot we known each other for almost 7 years been going out since october and have been really really close she gave me no signs of this happening just all of a sudden told me she has problems with family shes moving and has alot of stuff goin down but should i be concered i mean all of a sudden we don't talk at all for the last week dont text she just told me this in a email she doesnt pick up to my calls but now ive stopped calling and said ill give her some space i sent an email saying i understand and i will be here no matter what but i can't help but be concered i mean she is distancing her self from me i feel so should i pursue an answer or an explaniaton why she is seperating herself? I really REALLY love her or should i just take a step back and give it time?

2007-02-26 03:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by tbond1728 1 in Singles & Dating

I was filling a hole in my backyard when my neighbor peered over the fence and asked, "what are you up to John?" I told her my goldfish died and I just buried him. My neighbor then asked, "why such a big hole for a goldfish?" I replied, "Because he's inside your cat."

2007-02-26 03:08:10 · 14 answers · asked by SEAHAWKS P.O.ED 2 in Singles & Dating

What are some fun things to do for an anniversary?

2007-02-26 03:07:54 · 2 answers · asked by Danni 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, i think i could still have strong feelings for my ex husband. We were together 13 years and have a wonderful son. Being apart for 2 years has changed alot of things in the both of us...i know he still has strong feelings also. There were alot of factors in our divorce, it was alot of things that have since changed, do you think we could reunite and be happy...now that we got some things off our chests and out of our systems?

2007-02-26 03:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by Shanni1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any other fees I should think about?

2007-02-26 03:07:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

To make a long story short i cheated on my girl and she found out. I begged her to forgive me and she said she would under one condition. Every day after school she wants me to go over to her house and dress and act just like her. She told me she wants me to see what it feels like to be her. idk if i should give into her demands because i love her and it was just a stupid mistake. I dont even know where to start to become more of a girl. Can someone help me please idk what to do

2007-02-26 03:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by Brad The Man 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you say, how do you approach them and overall, what expectation should I set for myself for their response?
I believe I am well thought of by the parents, and I believe they think an engagement is coming. I was planning to not propose until after I spoke with the parents. Also, should it just be me, or both of us that speak to them?

2007-02-26 03:04:46 · 15 answers · asked by AU Don 1 in Weddings

ok i jus found out that i lost the baby! and its lyk driving me crazy, but how would i tell the father i mean we had been taklkin bout having a baby together since i was 13. its like i never really wanted it to happen soo soon. nut the thing is i sort of cheated with one of my close guy friends and i'm really sure who was the father anyway? should i tell them or not and how?

2007-02-26 03:04:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1

I don't think you knew
All the thoughts of you in my head
All the things I would do for you
Killing me slowly....
Wishing I was Dead

It's like a drug
Taken before bed
Crying, looking above
Killing me slowly....
Wishing I was dead

2

When the Rain falls
my thoughts of you come to view
the rain reminds me of my tear drops
like heaven's crying too
I miss the tender words you say
that made my heart ring
and took my breath away
I feel your passion and love
that helps me pull through
I know we'll be together again one day
I can feel it in my heart

(so wut do u think?)

2007-02-26 03:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends