should i be worried i mean we talked everyday texted everyday and just been together alot we known each other for almost 7 years been going out since october and have been really really close she gave me no signs of this happening just all of a sudden told me she has problems with family shes moving and has alot of stuff goin down but should i be concered i mean all of a sudden we don't talk at all for the last week dont text she just told me this in a email she doesnt pick up to my calls but now ive stopped calling and said ill give her some space i sent an email saying i understand and i will be here no matter what but i can't help but be concered i mean she is distancing her self from me i feel so should i pursue an answer or an explaniaton why she is seperating herself? I really REALLY love her or should i just take a step back and give it time?
2007-02-26 03:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by tbond1728 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to add something to this in this email she told me she loved me and cared and all this stuff not to worry and she promised things to get better so should i really give it time before i start to worry more
2007-02-26 03:28:51 · update #1
Alex hunny, be patient... If you give her the space she needs she will appreciate you even more... I know, I know, its hard just sitting back and waiting for some kind of news, it more like nerve wrecking than anything else...I understand you completely bro... But just be there for her! Keep emailing her sweet things so that whatever she is going thru can be mended a little by little ecards or voicemail recordings you can leave her, or songs on her voicemail, not all the time just here and there to reassure her that you are still present in her life!!! Hey...Keep ya head up! Good Luck!!! :)
2007-03-06 03:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a week or two. She is distanceing herself from you for a reason.. and saying its family issues is very vague.
This is sounding like its over or she wanted time apart from you to test herself in your relationship. Meaning she was already seeing a failing in the relationship and needs separation to determine if she wants to persue it or end it.
Give it at least one week but 2 is better. then send her an email. Explaining your concerns about the relationship and tell her you need clarification to what this is about so that you can move on and put it behind you if necessary
2007-02-26 03:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just move on. I meet this one girl and really started to fall for her. She had everything I was looking for. I do mean everything. (other then a hot friend for a threesome. LOL! jk) We shared very long e-mails about every week also. Which really helped with my anxiety until I could talk with her face to face.
The sad truth is its more likely to fail. Just try to stay in touch with her but act like your not that into her. Just care and act supportive and compliment her. Reduce you daily communication by 70%-80%. She just may want some space. Or found someone else. Who knows just find another chic and take things slow so she can't say your cheating on me anyway with another woman. If you prim relationship fails you got a backup.
2007-02-26 03:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jackel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should give her time. I told this guy that i needed time to get over my ex, but he kept pursuing me and would call me about 20 times a day (no lie, I'm serious). So I quit picking up the phone and didn't listen to his voicemails. The more you pursue her, the more she may pull away.
2007-02-26 03:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by that dead girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, she has family issues. Like you said, take a step back and give her some space.
2007-02-26 03:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes give her time.......
2007-02-26 03:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋