I had the same situation....I broke up with my bf whom I was with for over 4 and 1/2years. It was about 10 months ago when I broke up with him. I was still missing him until I found out he was engaged! Once you find the right person (a new man!) you will stop thinking about him and you time together. All I can say is give it time and start dating more to keep your mind off of it! Its hard but once you find the ONE it will totally change!
Keep you chin up and enjoy the single life :o)
2007-02-26 03:28:46
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answered by melmiko 2
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2 years
2007-02-26 11:21:14
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answered by Anonymous
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u'll never really kno the answer to that. it's when u decide to let urself move on. that's a long time to be with someone and it's definitely gonn ahurt. just don't rush into n e relationships. and i kno it may seem impossible but try to think of the positive things that come from this. ur on ur own...yes that might be scary...but for the past 4 years u've been always doing things for two ppl..now it's time to just do things fo rurself. do things that u never could've done if u had a bf. spend and cherish the time u have with ur friends. take time for urself. sometimes a little confidence helps. take something about urself that u don't like and work on it. it'll make u feel a whole lot better. or maybe vow to become a new person and start out fresh. dye ur hair, wear something u normally wouldn't, do urself up =o) u'll feel nice
2007-02-26 11:18:24
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answered by shaleeka j 1
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It depends. Why are you still emotionally attached to him if you broke up with him? Only you can answer this question. Go to the library or bookstore and find books on this ... you would be surprised how many people have asked the same question and you will get ideas on how to move on. It's never easy letting go of someone we love or loved ... in fact it's down right difficult even if it was not a good relationship. Perhaps you need to seek out a counselor.
2007-02-26 11:29:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Good question, let me pull out my trusty conversion chart and spectograph...lets see, page 3..ok here it is, i follow axis A to 4 yrs and then axis B says it will take approx 4 yrs and some change...hey notice the time of mourning is equal to the time invested in the relationship??...a proven mathematical formula i swear~~~
2007-02-26 11:17:25
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answered by wild1 5
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Use the Williamson and Zaitsev dating equation.
Y=the integral of [lxl+(z/a)^b] in terms of z from 0 to 4 years
lxl= absolute value of how much money you spent on him minus what he spent on you.
z= number of sexual encounters
a= his kissing ability on a scale from 1 to 10
b= % of the four years you were actually with him, excluding time on the phone with him.
2007-02-26 11:20:32
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answered by theguywith10toes 2
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According to the show "Sex & the City", it will take half the time that the two of you were together. So.......you'll be completely over him in two years!
2007-02-26 11:20:00
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answered by lil1_mg 2
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I'd give it at least a year or two to completely be able to move on.
2007-02-26 11:14:26
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answered by Amanda 3
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