To make a long story short i cheated on my girl and she found out. I begged her to forgive me and she said she would under one condition. Every day after school she wants me to go over to her house and dress and act just like her. She told me she wants me to see what it feels like to be her. idk if i should give into her demands because i love her and it was just a stupid mistake. I dont even know where to start to become more of a girl. Can someone help me please idk what to do
2007-02-26 03:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by Brad The Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really feel bad and want her forgiveness, you should just do it... of course if it keeps up and goes on forever, you could say something...but right now, she wears the pants and obviously you will be wearing the dress..
2007-02-26 03:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest I think this is asking a bit too much, I can see what she wants to get out of it, for you to be more considerate of her feelings and try and understand her a bit more. Try suggesting you do the things she enjoys instead of dressing up as her. If she has any hobbies or interests you could join in, do things with her that you normally wouldn't, go shopping with her or take her to the cinema and watch a chick flick. The most important thing is to show her how special she is to you and how much you love her. Good Luck x
2007-02-26 03:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the worst that happens to you for cheating then you got off easy. I would not recommend any woman/girl continue to date a proven cheater. I hope she gives you problems and that you learn a valuable lesson from what you have done. No body should ever have to feel the pain and humiliation from a cheater. Not to mention be at risk of std's because of a cheater. SHAME!!
2007-02-26 03:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brad... first, apologize to the lady for breaking your promises to her, for you should not have been unfaithful. Then, run screaming as though your life depends on it.
Her request has more to do with her need for vengeance than with any desire on her part to mend the relationship. There's nothing even remotely therapeutic about what she's asking you to do.
Apologize. Break off the relationship. Then, go and sin no more. Find another girl -- one more emotionally stable. And keep your promises this time.
2007-02-26 03:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia Fella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do love this girl, then do what she says.Remember you hurt her really bad by cheating on her, so her telling you to do things is just a way to see if you really will do things to make it right.I can guarantee that she wont trust you at all for a really long time but you shoulda known what you were getting yourself into.
2007-02-26 03:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by boriqua_052005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats real weird! Well the fact that you are even considering doin this tells me you must be sorry! Ask your girl why she wants you to act like a girl - is it some sort of fantasy?
2007-02-26 03:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok you should think about if you really love her and everything and if you do then do what she wants for a while to make it up to her, i'm sure you are sorry and everything but she still feels like you walked all over her heart. but good luck with everything!! im sure you will make a great decision no matter what happens!
2007-02-26 03:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you just need advice on cross dressing, there are sites out there to help you understand these desires, contact them.
2007-02-26 03:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't let her trick you like that, all women are vengeful, she wants you to do that because she will take pictures of it and release them to anybody who would LOVE to see them, screw her dude, you screwed up she will NEVER let you forget that PERIOD, if you stay with her she owns you and that's that, GET OUT!
2007-02-26 03:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating only counts when you are married! You MUST REMEMBER 1 THING,a lie is as good as the truth as long as you take it to grave with you!
2007-02-26 03:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋