Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

i am at the point where i changing my life. i have tried make new friends. have more conversation than i used to. i don't have really a close friend yet. i trying to people to like me which is very difficult for me. but i feel like they don't like me that much, i don't know how do i make them like me. i have to make them i like me cos i want alot friends. it is hard so give some advice how do you treat people, what things do you say to your friends also if u have a close friend how did u two become such good friends. what activity do u do in your happy life?? maybe i think what i need is a girlfriend. but i don't have that confidence to talk a gal cos i don't know what to say to her. can u also help me on this. i really feel trapped.

2007-02-22 06:23:30 · 8 answers · asked by shone 1 in Friends

my guy friend and I got physically involved a few times. We both know that it was a mistake and continued to be friends. He doesn't live around here, so we talk online and on the phone a lot. It is pleasant conversation.Then when he came to visit, we hung out and he seemed nervous around me, and it was awkward. We ended up hookingup. Afterward we agreed we cannot do it anymore and i went on about how we're just friends. he seemed hurt, but said he agreed. we continue to talk and one day i said i was starting to like him more than a friend and was getting relationship ideas & thought he should know. He got very defensive and kept saying he didn't like me that way and he didn't want a relationship and we are just friends. I said that is fine, i just had to tell him the truth, and i still want to be friends. then we went back to talking like friends but he seems mad and is acting so (passive aggressively) while insisting hes OK. I think he's upset. WHY? does he even KNOW if he is upset?

2007-02-22 06:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by jennykolletti 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i know which Parish i live in? I would like to get married at St Mary's church in Arnold Nottingham, but live in Carlton, Nottingham. It's only a couple of miles away, but is it in my parish?

2007-02-22 06:22:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i need to know.
i have never been before but i think i am now <3

2007-02-22 06:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by Ambiguous-Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I got home from my bf's house and my hair was wet, obviously i've been with intimate with him, we've dated for a year. I'm only 20 and I don't know what else she would think if I'm with a 25 year old man. Now my curfew is 12am, nothing past that and I have no liberties. She doesn't talk to me, and she's taking back the gran that she gave me for my Birthday. I'm in no position of moving out as for I only have a parttime job, my bf doesn't want to be force to move in with me, and i'm pretty much stuck. What should I do? Any ideas? Help please, my crying isn't going to get me anywhere.

2007-02-22 06:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by Girlwoman 2 in Singles & Dating

Being with a man who is adicted to video games,loves to drink pespi and eat chocolate all the time like a drug feen,does not hear you when you speak to him,never gives me a hug,or is there in time of need,only wants to grab the private areas when he wants it...Of course I refuse for some time now.Can anyone give me some advice? I am so depressed and feel very neglected.

2007-02-22 06:21:58 · 14 answers · asked by sweeeetypie55 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 06:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by Rayman 1 in Friends

Hi

Its been a year and a half since my partner and i split up for a period of about 7 months. During this time he seen another girl for about 8 weeks pretty much straight away. We have been together for about 7 years and have one son together and at the moment i am 3 months pregnant. I am still having real problems coming to terms with this other female, unfortunately he still works in the same shop as her and it causes me a lot of pain. am i being silly staying with this guy, do you think he just finds our relationship convenient. He always takes loads of pics of me and tells me he loves me and that he really wants this baby but i find it soo hard to believe him. I didnt take him back straight away i waited about 5 months before i let him move back in. I know it is not wise to get pregnant when feeling this way but i am and theres no changing that now. he says he left me because our relationship was on the rocks? opinions appreciated

2007-02-22 06:20:50 · 5 answers · asked by Laura G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She totally blames me for her grandmother's death! You see, her grandmother was diagnosed with cancer on my birthday, and died when I was over my friends house. Okay, its sorta really bugging me because she keeps claiming I'm a witch and avoiding me. What can I do that will convince her that that idea is bogus, and get her to be my friend again?

2007-02-22 06:20:35 · 14 answers · asked by ~ Lillie ~ 4 in Friends

2007-02-22 06:20:32 · 4 answers · asked by ladieday20 1 in Weddings

i love 2 guys one i want to spend the rest of my life with but i cant never hardly see him the other guy i can see him everyday what di i do?????????

2007-02-22 06:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by brittany richardson 1 in Singles & Dating

my man and i hooked up in august originally for a week, it was amazing. I then went back home to hawaii for a month and met another man. And I quickly fell for him instead! after that man left me, only a month later. i flew back to seattle and starting seeing my current boyfriend again. I never told him about the other guy, until yesterday when he found dated pictures of him on my computer! we were not techinically together so i wasnt cheating, but he is still really hurt and mad at me! He will hardly talk to me. I think that I might love him and care for him very deeply, I have no idea what to say to him that will make him understand that! HELP!!!!

2007-02-22 06:20:05 · 12 answers · asked by stacy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 06:19:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Male and female inmates do not have access to a computer or the Internet so all correspondence will be through the U.S. Mail. I ask that you treat these attractive male and female inmates with some dignity and respect. After all, these individuals are human beings, have feelings, and many of them want to straighten out their lives! Let's give them a reason to hope for a better future.

YES US prisoners want penpals ...and money sent

Would you be one of their penpals???

IF so heres the site
http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/

2007-02-22 06:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she used to be loveable!! and all!
and she used to act like she likes me but now it all went away!!
like she says she cares about me but once when i was sad, she asked me "whats wrong?"
then i paused for like 5 seconds the she just said "fine the screw you!!" i and that same day i when she was feelin bad i tryed to find out what was wrong for a whole hour!!
i got so mad at that time!!! and like she doesn't show that she cares at school! but she does care about me on the phone!! and she like cares about someone at school way more than me!! like if he feels bad she is allways trying to help him!!
oh yah she also wants to make me jelouse! like she would say that my best friend wrote "i love _____ and her (her = my gf) and _____ = the girl that he likes!!
and i know he didn't write that he loves my gf!! but she tryes to make me mad and jelouse by saying that!!and its weird that she wants to talk to me on the phone but not in school!!
is that pathetic or what!!

2007-02-22 06:19:07 · 1 answers · asked by i tell it how it is! 5 in Singles & Dating

and found this disturbing.The poor man was 'forced' by the good doctor to tell why he did what he did.She indicated that it could be something to do with his childhood.He pondered and tears rolled down and he said "My father never listened to me......" "That's it ............" the doctor said.

My question is ," Does everything that happened to us,eventhough it's due to poor choice on our part,related to our childhood.Or is it easier to 'blame' it as such?"


And on another program whereby the man was asked "Did you ever loved her (his mistress)?" How was he suppossed to answer? His wife,the psychiatrist,Oprah and the whole audience was there.Of course he said "No" but I don't believe him!He just said what the people wanted to hear.


On programs such as those mentioned above, the men were always made to look bad.Why do these men subject themselves to the torture of the interrogation?Did their wives forced them?I really want to know what happened when these men go home that day

2007-02-22 06:18:58 · 14 answers · asked by Montana Skye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 06:18:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I usually let her order off the 99-cents menu only but it IS our anniversary...

2007-02-22 06:18:37 · 30 answers · asked by Mullet Man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 06:18:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 18 i left my dads house (he is not my real dad) i moved in with his ex wife the mother of my dads 2 sons, my and my bf are having problems he hurt me in the past and i cant seem to forget him, he says he has changed and he does act like he has changed and my best friend died and my real mom and i dont talk she is two faced and i dont like how she treats me i feel like i dont have any one REAL to talk to family wise and i'm scared my bf will hurt me again i need help understanding who i can talk to and who will not hurt me or betray me i dont think this makes any senxe but please try to help ,e

2007-02-22 06:18:21 · 2 answers · asked by evwetherell07 2 in Friends

What kind of questions would you ask to someone that you are starting to date to get to know him/her better?....questions that willl keep the conversation flowing.

2007-02-22 06:18:08 · 9 answers · asked by There! 2 in Singles & Dating

HOW?? please help lol??

2007-02-22 06:17:55 · 5 answers · asked by sexy_lil_bitch1214 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and My boyfriend have been together for a month. In January he had a comment saying "I love you" on his myspace page. It was not from me. I was very upset so I asked him who the girl was and he said that I was messy and not to worry about it becasue he was going to block her. Well, three days ago I asked him again (because she had sent another message on his page saying she loved him)and he went off saying things like I don't trust him and all of that. (This has happened to him before and he was mad becasue he was saying I thought you were different) I tried to apologize but he was like that I am not really sorry. I havent talked to him in 2 days. What shouel I say to him if he thinks that I don't trust him? He told my 2 best friends that if I don't trust him then he doesn't trust me. It's not that I don't trust him I don't know what it is. I am really in love with him. I don't want this to end. I never said I didn't trust him. PLease Help Me

2007-02-22 06:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by passion4fashion07 3 in Singles & Dating

so why do they care much if he has it with someone else?

2007-02-22 06:17:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 06:16:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today in skool i was walkin up stairs and the guy i like was walking beside me ...people were being really slow in front of us and i said to my best friend...god if the were goin any slower they'd be goin backwards ...the guy i like laughed at my comment as he over heard ......and said to the people in front "excuse me......make way for the extremely attractive...aint that rite stace? and i said yeh :) ...does tht mean he was thinkin i was attractive? lol ...?

2007-02-22 06:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i started dating this guy and its been 7 months , now there is a girl calling me telling me that she has been with him for 2 1/2 years. i really like him and he's telling me that he is going to leave her, should i stay and wait till he does ?

2007-02-22 06:16:07 · 10 answers · asked by live in the magic of life 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 months. I'm 18 and recently had sex for the first time with him. I'm madly in love with him and I know he feels the same about me but my friends think it was too soon. Is there a right age? And is there a right amount of time you should be with someone before you have sex with him?

2007-02-22 06:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by mollyinlove 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a dream that my fiance and I were married, in what looked like a community centre (Not sure why!) and then it went to the evning and he was driving us down a country road when someone stopped our car and made us get out. I got out instantly, as they had shotguns pointed at us but my fiance did not want to. He froze to death in the field whilst we waited for help. Then our wedding photos were showing just his suit and not him because he died! Can someone explain this as it freaked me out. x

2007-02-22 06:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And me in the act. We weren't having sex or anything but we
were close to doing so. My girlfriend said that it was OK and
that she forgave me but that we would have to start over in
our relationship (No sex, no sleeping over, etc.)
I said OK to it but now I think it is unfair especially since there was
no time limit put on the starting over part.
What should I do?? Should I go through it or just give up??

2007-02-22 06:15:56 · 15 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating