i started dating this guy and its been 7 months , now there is a girl calling me telling me that she has been with him for 2 1/2 years. i really like him and he's telling me that he is going to leave her, should i stay and wait till he does ?
2007-02-22 06:16:07 · 10 answers · asked by live in the magic of life 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you want to switch places w/the 'girlfriend'. You'll be the new 'girlfriend' and someone else will be the one on the side.
I can't imagine you liking that! You probably like what you envision him being instead of seeing him for the two-timing loser that he is. If you stay with him, you'll eventually see that and will get fed up and leave. And you'll regret not leaving sooner.
Please don't put yourself through that.
2007-02-22 06:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing and walk away from this situation. He's obviously a liar and a cheat and even if those aren't good enough reasons, he's not yours, or at least he wasn't yours first. Let him work on or work out his 2 1/2 year relationship before starting one with you. In the grand scheme of things you've only known him for 7 months (not that long) find someone else.
2007-02-22 14:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by flow_mj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy spending your time with men who lie to you and cheat, then do it. If you feel you deserve an honest, faithful, loyal man, dump him for good. You might not be the only girl on the side- he could have others. But you'll never know.
2007-02-22 14:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If he is cheating on her, and IF he ever dumps her, then he will eventually cheat on you. If he ever really meant to leave her, he would have done so before hooking up with you. Run, forget him. Once a cheater, always a cheater!!!
2007-02-22 14:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If he was going to leave her for you, he would have done it several months ago. Personally, I think both you AND his long-term girlfriend should dump the big cheater and find men who will actually have respect for you!
2007-02-22 14:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by ckmclements 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liers and cheats will always be liers and cheats, but they are usually a WHOLE LOT of fun to lie and cheat with.
2007-02-22 14:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. get out of this now. f he can do that to his gf of 2 1/2 years, imagine what he will do to you. he's jus playing you
2007-02-22 14:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because even if he does (doubtful), he'll probably do the same thing to you!
2007-02-22 14:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by frozenpeaches1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find what he really is
2007-02-22 14:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser.
2007-02-22 14:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Charles B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋