Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

hey all so...i work at tesco and have done for agessss.i met this guy,a customer,we went out as mates for a wee while and got on really well.the other week he took me out and we held hands and ended up kissing.i came home feeling all warm inside and wanted more than friendship.until i found out about his 'secret' girlfriend.I emailed him saying he was cheating and he has since sent me a load of abuse.Calling me names and saying i'm easy,when i have only had sex ONCE in my life.Is that easy???
But i find myself so bloody angry yet still missing his friendship,i dont understand.

2007-02-22 06:15:43 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 06:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my gf tells me she needs "some time alone to solve some problems" (not related to me). But yet today it was clear to me that she wanted me back. I also learned that she went out to this guys house to drink, without even telling me (I learned from a friend). I mean I really love her and trust her completely (and atleast she shows that she loves me). But I am confused because she has plans saturday night to go drinking again, and she never told me about yesterday.

A few minutes ago I sent her a txt that basically said "I didnt want to make a big deal out of it, I think its fine that she goes out with "guy" friends because I have that much trust in her, but also said that I hope when she says she loves me that it is authentic. (Cuz I love her and dont want her to say that when its not true! and hurt me)

Was it the right idea for me to send that txt!! or should I jus have let it go on like this?

2007-02-22 06:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 06:14:31 · 14 answers · asked by Soso 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f goes to another skewl and i think hes cheating on me!!

2007-02-22 06:14:13 · 7 answers · asked by Michigan hottay 1 in Singles & Dating

she died in a fatal car accident
her and her sister died in the SAME accident
Their mother lost her only 2 children
we were best friends for 5 yrs
i lived with them for a summer
we told each other EVERYTHING
she was getting into drugs
her knee was bad
they were killed by her sister ex fiance
5 ppl were in the car
4 died
my best friend was 15
the "driver" got 80 yrs.

2007-02-22 06:14:12 · 6 answers · asked by evwetherell07 2 in Friends

Ok so I was with this guy for 2 yrs and 4 months we broke up and it has been 6 months but we are back together now , during this time i meat a guy he is really nice and sweet . Today my bf was supost to meet me on msn at 6 it is now 8 and he isnt here . This guy i meat is here on msn and is askin me 2 go to his but i know if i go i will end up doing something i will regret we dated for a while . I am so confused i dont know what to do . My bf never cheated on me but at the moment i dont know what to think , My bf leaft his gf for me he was with her for only 1 month and hardly saw her . I dont know if he would cheat on me or not ( he may have i dnt know lots of girlz r into him )im really confused please help me please???????????

2007-02-22 06:13:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We(my mom, brother, and me) are throwing a surprise 50th birthday party for my dad on sunday..Now we are expecting around 50 guests..what should we do in that party...i mean just that everybody comes together and talk..what else?? pls help

2007-02-22 06:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by question#123 2 in Family

I don't think that he can keep his hands on me. I think bein talk to her for about a month. He have bein the same went he around me. I don't no why b/c I love him. He mit just think I'm f*** with my exboyfriend. What should I do about that. Went I see him he don't really have nothing for me ........ I wish that I no why b/c I wount to no how true that is .

2007-02-22 06:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by kmoney 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it's different for everyone, just want to see what other people like to do to get in the mood. See if i would like to try some of them with my wife.

2007-02-22 06:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by streetgen 2 in Singles & Dating

i never meet him and he was next to his friends.

2007-02-22 06:11:48 · 19 answers · asked by linda m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 06:11:39 · 17 answers · asked by blaquespice78 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand! I know that men are "supposed" to be or are "hard wired" to be LESS sensative than women....but why are some men practicly VOID of sensativity all together? And when men are in a serious relationship, why wouldn't the fact that their loved one is hurt bother them?

2007-02-22 06:11:18 · 22 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 06:10:51 · 22 answers · asked by Colleen J 2 in Weddings

met my boyfriend over a year and a half ago and we now live together and are very much in love.

At first, we "courted" for about four weeks, spending quite a lot of time together (three or four nights a week) and then he went on holiday to Spain with a friend. When he came back, I asked him to be my boyfriend officially and he agreed. Five or six months later, we were having a light-hearted chat and it came up that while he was on holiday during the first month, he had drukenly kissed somebody else in a club in Spain. He was not ashamed or apologetic in any way - he just said that's how dating goes. While he was very upfront about it we hadn't been together very long when it happened, I've felt betrayed ever since. He says he would never ever have done it had we been further into the relationship and never even looks at anybody else. However, was he wrong to kiss somebody else at that stage in our relationship? Did he do anything wrong?

2007-02-22 06:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by kevinos_1982 1 in Singles & Dating

All This talking was going on while I was at work (3rd Shift). Even though we live in GA and she lives in NJ. I lost a lot of trust in my husband for keeping this from, and every time I look at him I wonder if while he was in NJ did somthing happen between them. They both swear that they are only friends. But why did he have to hide it from me. Oh and by the way he did cheat on me with this girl when we first started dating. The calling has stoped but what should I do about our trust issue?

2007-02-22 06:10:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

don't know how to approach this problem of mine. I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 1/2 months, and I still can't seem to relax around her. It is very strange. Most of the time, I don't know how to make conversation with her (I am like this with almost everyone except for my family, by the way). I feel socially inept and insecure. I have basically no friends and I'm very introveted, so I don't have much of a life outside of my full time job and college courses. The thing about my gf is that a couple of weeks ago she said she loved me, and I could tell she meant it. She has a four year old daughter. I notice that my gf is more introverted and laughs less around me than others (although we do laugh at times). I just want her to be happy. I do treat her like a queen. I take her places, do things with her and her daughter, and we don't fight. ADVICE? How can I break out of my shell?

2007-02-22 06:10:16 · 24 answers · asked by mspidey2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my bf for 2 years (officially this Saturday). We've talked about possibly getting married and have gone to look at rings. My mom gave me a stone to put in my ring which I've been keeping in my jewelry box wrapped in a piece of tissue paper. I was looking for something in there the other day and noticed that the tissue paper was all messed up, but the stone was still in it. He asked me to be sure he could use his entire paycheck for our anniversary this month, but said we're not getting a hotel suite or anything. He ran some errands for our anniversary the other day after he got paid, and I haven't checked the tissue paper since then. Do you think he's going to ask me to marry him? I hope so! He told my best friend what he was doing for our anniversary, but she won't tell me!

2007-02-22 06:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by GroovyGirl623 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I always see him everywhere all the time and I think i fell in love with him. I don't know if he likes me back =P
here is the proble I am a boy =)
I think he is gay but I really dont know him I've never talked to him b4
one of my friends is in his class I am always looking at him sometimes he looks at me and then looks away when I look back lol
what should I do?
=( I am in love =(

2007-02-22 06:09:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me explain why the four most obvious answers don't work for us:

1) Join a christian club/group at your college.
We go to community college, no Campus Crusade/Christian groups

2) Try a Bible Study.
I never liked this setting, meeting in someone's house under certain terms in a small group discussing various lessons. Great for learning, not for making friends.

3) Church.
My buds and I feel guilty when we flirt with girls at church, it's just an awkward feeling.

4) Try an internet dating site.
I think I would find it hard to carry on a relationship with a picture on a computer screen or a voice on the phone.

These were all answers we got a while ago, we each tried them out with no luck.

Smart alec responses are not appreciated.

2007-02-22 06:08:13 · 8 answers · asked by Ethan D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm haveing a lot of problems with my group of friends. The whole thing is so catty and I hate the way one small thing can make the whole group turn against you. My friend won tickets to a comedy show and I said i MAY go. When it came to the day, me and my bf had some things to do on our ONLY DAY OFF all week and we said we couldn't make it. Now it caused this uproar in our group and everyone is mad at us now. Why why why?

2007-02-22 06:06:56 · 22 answers · asked by O.K. 1 in Friends

I'm a single guy and I like to flirt with all my female friends on facebook. Would you be offended as a friend if you knew that I flirt with other female friends? You know, we're just facebook friends ! Would this give the impression that am a womanizer? I'm looking for a date and waiting for a girl to response to me flirting with her on facebook and then of course I'll stop flirting with others. Is it wrong to flirt verbally with many girls online at the same time?

2007-02-22 06:06:55 · 22 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married on 7-7-7. We are have a poker theme. We have slot machine with 7-7-7 for invites and pooker tables set-up for the cocktail hour and lots of poker/Vegas themed decor but when I look online I dont see alot of ideas or themed items . It seems to be all the same and I was wondering If anyone has ideas or anything to help us out in our design... with so many weddings this day and poker being popular I dont want everything to be the same as everyone elses... We thought we were smart to pick this theme and date but the closer it gets i see more and more people with simmaler ideas

2007-02-22 06:06:35 · 13 answers · asked by ShEnAbEeNa 1 in Weddings

I am 20 but usually get told I look 16 maybe 17. Is this a bad thing I think its because I have a petitie body type and a "cute" young looking face. Bad thing? Sometimes it is annoying.

2007-02-22 06:05:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mom is in her early 50's but looks lots younger. She was in a bad marriage with my Dad for 16 years, he was physically abuse to both of us. She's had a few relationships since but they didn't work out. She has been on her own for about 10 years and she is very nervous about starting a new relationship. She definately wants the companionship though and justs needs a lovely gentleman to take care of her and be good to her. My Mom is very caring, considerate and faithful. She would like to chat online first with someone and I want to help her find someone. Are there any genuine caring gentlemen out there that would like to have a chat ith my Mom? You need to be between 50 and 60 and most of all take it slow and have a good heart! Reply here but absolutely no timewasters!! Thanks

2007-02-22 06:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

okay my best best best friend [sally] has been lying to me. about this boy [her nephew] who i like. she tells me things like. jay said he miss u just dumb stuff , but it be lies. im pretty sure yall heard of myspace. anyway i sent him a friend request and he did not approve me. my ex friend sally sister said that jay thinks im a ''good girl'' the point is i really liked him alot. sally knew it. and all she kept trying to do was embarress me. recording things i said about him and sending them out. putting me on speaker phone when i talked about him. im just soooooooooo mad at her. and i dont want to be her friend no more but i don't want to tell her that im mad. because i don't want her telling people that i'm just mad beacuse jay don't like me. i just wanna distance myself from here completly. she lies too much her other best friend said she called dibs on him. but sally told me that she didnt like him. and before that she said her other best friend did'nt like black boys.

2007-02-22 06:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

What do I do? I feel like with all of school and cheer and my boyfriend, I just have no more time with friends. I still have my friends but none of them are in my classes really. Well anyways my best friend lied to me, and she's friends with the whole rest of the cheer squad. I never yell at anyone or get up in their face about anything and I always try not to be annoying and I just try my hardest at everything..I was #1 last year out of like 600 students..so I always try but people say they hate me. No matter what i do, someone is always just trying to screw me up and ruin my life it seems like. I, as of right now, usually sit in my classes with noone to talk to. - well i guess just cheer really. Well, back to my friend, her boyfriend was going to have a party and i really didnt care if i was invited or not, but it was a surprise for him. So she invited ALL of my friends, except me, she tries to act now like she didnt even do anything, of course, but anyways...i dont know what to do.

2007-02-22 06:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by karatechoppinbarbie 1 in Friends

My parent's 23th anniversay is comming up. I want to get them a little something. I was thinking perhaps a gift certificate to their favorite restaraunt or maybe some flowers...?? I can not affors to spend more than $100. Any ideas?

2007-02-22 06:03:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What I mean, is none romantic attachment, a true friend, loyal to you, no gossip behind your back

2007-02-22 06:02:41 · 31 answers · asked by denis9705 5 in Singles & Dating

50% or more marriages wind up in divorce. Do you like that better? Dr Laura has the answer.

2007-02-22 06:01:23 · 11 answers · asked by zeepogee 3 in Marriage & Divorce