Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

I have been with "him" for 7 years, we have 2 young children together and we are not married. We recently relocated out of state; far away from any family and friends due to my job. He has recently been very irresponsible with our finances and inconsiderate towards me; (ie, staying out for long periods of time, not letting anyone know where he is refusing to answer calls, including his work when he was supposed to be there. Leaving me alone without a vehicle and no way to get to work or get my kids to school and no way to get a hold of him, or anyone for that matter.) Recently his paychecks have gone "missing" and offers the following vague explanations for these things (I work too much, the truck broke down, I had to help someone out, etc, etc) I am getting fed up with this and whenever he is home he is mean and bossy, when I asked him to leave he told me I couldn't make him because his name was on the lease and that I couldn't leave either, nor could I take the kids if I tried. HELP!

2007-02-22 06:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do masquarade (i don't know how to spell it) parties have to be for halloween because i wanted to have 1 for my birthday which is April 1st.Can u please give me datails on what kind of food to eat and what to do at those kind of parties. I asked my bf he said he didn't even know what that was. So please help me

2007-02-22 06:35:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfiend who i love dearly is going off to war in a month and i have been with him for over a year and well my question is what should i do? wait for him and work on my schooling tell his return, or dont even though i love him.

2007-02-22 06:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by Cyndul M 1 in Singles & Dating

I want some honest opions please..even critical ones too!
I am getting married Sept 15 of this year and still wondering about table decor and center pieces. The tables are long and rectangular. I was thinking of using tall vases with 3 lilies/peonies (switching it up on tables) and putting some stuff called ice crystals in them and having votives on the sides and for the tables that I do not put flowers on putting a round bowl that isnt very deep with the ice crystals and putting floating candles and rose petals in them. My colors are pool blue (kinda teal) and a dark pink color. I was also considering putting candles on mirrors. I have been considering using rock salt and putting different sized candles in there instead. Im confused and do not know what will work best. I want different things on my tables and not all of them the same. Like on half of them flowers and the other half candles with something. HELP!!! I just dont know what will work the best!!!

2007-02-22 06:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by AB 2 in Weddings

I've decided to use martini glasses as table decorations for my wedding i was planning to have the cracked ice stuff dyed orange and put a tiger lily on top. I don't know anymore my colors are ivory and chocolate brown with orange as an accent color. Any suggestions or pictures of any ideas would be helpful!! Thanks!!

2007-02-22 06:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Weddings

I being with my boyfriend for five mounth. I love my boyfriend .It's this boy come to Popeyes everyday just to say something to me . I have told my boyfriend that this boy come to my job to see me but I told him that this boy like me. In this boy come to my job very day.. I don't no him like that .. SOMEBOBY PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS QUESTION....................................

2007-02-22 06:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by kmoney 1 in Singles & Dating

she speaks german and i dont.
we live in the same hostel.

2007-02-22 06:33:49 · 4 answers · asked by neo 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together since my kids were 3 1/2 and 1 yr. His daughter was also 1 yr. He would never discipline them because he didn't want to be the bad guy. Once they turned teens he decided to step in. Needless to say, none of the kids liked it. Since then, my son has moved out, his daughter moved out but my 16 yr old daughter still lives here. I haven't been able to leave because the past 2 yrs I have been in the hospital 9 times and have had 15 surgeries. I recently got on disabilty but have a long, expensive road ahead of me. Since my daughter is the only one here she gets the brunt of him. He makes up his mind that she has done things wrong and no matter what I say or prove he will not change his mind. He has gotten on medicine for stress/anxiety which worked for awhile but not anymore. He has put me in a situation to choose between him and my daughter. Of course I will choose my daughter but with little disability, no way to work, I don't feel I have a way out.

2007-02-22 06:33:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have lived with my boyfriend for over a year. We met on an online dating site, and I moved out of state to be with him 9 mos after we met. This past weekend I go to put in a internet IP address on his log-in (he just left it like that without logging off as he usually does). When I go to put in the address, it shows his previous online history and listed is www.match.com, the same site where we originally met. Under "properties, " it says he was last on there earlier that day. In addition I see where he's looked at several local girls' pages on myspace. When I confront him, he claims he did it purposely to see whetehr I was snooping on his online account. I don't know whether to believe him that he was just "testing" me. It has made me want to go on those dating sites again myself since he seems to have no interest in me since he's looking at others. yet he acts his normal self at home and is pretty affectionate. So what gives?

2007-02-22 06:32:45 · 20 answers · asked by dizzylizzy20_11 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean i have seen many times that people who have been bad or done bad stuff to somebody..have to suffer for teir deeds some or the other day..is it somekind of enrgy equilibrium in this world..i mean if you give out negative enrgy..that energy will come back to destroy you?
My aunt who used be such a foul mouthed person, who used to hate evryone has been diagnosed with some lung diseaese..now she is on oxygen 24*7..she had been bad to evryone..but now after being diagnosed with that disease..she had said sorry to evyrone..and asked evryone to forgive her..What a change!!!

2007-02-22 06:32:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, long sotry short.... my g/f and i have been together for awhile... she almost 20 and has an 8 1/2 month old baby, which im raising... i do everything for them two... pay her cell phone bill, her bank debt, gas, cigarettes, wake up at night for the baby, do all the daddy things for the baby, and i still get walked all over... im a very nice and outgoing guy, and everyone of her friends tell me that. but im just sick and tired of her flying off the handle for no reason all the time... it could be the smallest thing in the world, like how i only smoke a half a cigarette at a time, she freaks out on me asking "why the f*** do you only smoke a half a cigarette"... even her mom tells her shes going to lose me... shes very moody and im always walking on egg shells... i rub her back every night, cater to her every need, and i still get the same result... i know she loves me, but i think she just has issues... im really lost, and were planning on getting a house VERY SOON, i need help.....

2007-02-22 06:30:25 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What exactly is the most important thing in a relationship to you personally?

2007-02-22 06:30:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

is there

2007-02-22 06:28:47 · 19 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 06:28:22 · 21 answers · asked by Tay_A 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm into action packed movies, I don't mind chick flicks (infact I recently watched devil wears prada, 2 thumbs up), but I want a movie thats going to be both enjoyable and a combination of a guy and woman movie. Any suggestions?

2007-02-22 06:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well we have been friends for a while and i ahve sudenly realized that i have feelings for him in a different way than jsut bein friends..........so i need help if i should tell him or jsut suck it up and just be friends???

2007-02-22 06:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by Candy_Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you apologize, run or introduce him to the man you had in your house with you when he doubled back and busted you.

2007-02-22 06:27:07 · 4 answers · asked by sweetladytease 3 in Singles & Dating

have been seeing this guy for about a month and a half "offical" for 2 weeks im his first gf in 2 yrs.when we first started hanging out he would make EVERY effort to see me(never alone tho always with friends)the first week we became gf/bf, i saw him almost everyday.last thurs we all went to a barand i saw a 1 of his friends(girl)getting too close to him & i freaked.he didnt talk to me all friday and half of sat.i didnt see him again until tuesday this week he seemed SO happy to see me(no we didnt have sex).I straight up asked him if he wants to be with me and he said of course i do.i asked him if h wanted to meet up last night when he was done helping his buddies with something and he said possibly.I called back after and said that i wanted a answer and i want to see him more.he said he would "figure it out"and call me back.HE never did!!I dont want to be a nag BUT this is going to ruin this.i barely call him,so im not really needy,i just think we need to develop our relationship!

2007-02-22 06:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

i was suppost to be going to the gym but it never happened lol so i am watching t.v. how about you's ????????

2007-02-22 06:26:22 · 20 answers · asked by sara2007 1 in Singles & Dating

been tramautised..grow up to be insecure?
Dont you think that each kid in this world deserves enough care and attention?

2007-02-22 06:26:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what do you think?

2007-02-22 06:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by Mystee_Rain 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for an Christian Anglo Indian Bridegroom, who must be God fearing and spiritual and who should be of 32 years of age or more even. Pls mail me if you have any answers. Thank You in advance!

2007-02-22 06:25:58 · 1 answers · asked by SPECTRA 1 in Weddings

A girl I like a lot maybe even love now and I were hanging out at private school close to our house, and she brought her sis and her sis's frd. So while we hung out, she basically just kept glancing over to me and blushing and repeated that for over 10 mins. And I guess I figured that she was shy and later after we got to talk alone she admited it...does that mean shes interested in me or she wants to be with me? I'm confused...thank you to those who answer honestly and politely.

2007-02-22 06:25:51 · 4 answers · asked by Elijah B 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to get something different but inexpensive.

2007-02-22 06:25:33 · 1 answers · asked by kimchee_boi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are there any people in your life that just bring bad luck to you when ever they are around? My wife and I call it the Touch of Sh*t.

2007-02-22 06:25:32 · 1 answers · asked by corporatetrade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i are in a really great relatinship, we are supposed to be getting married next yr, the thing is, last summer he bit me on my arm and spat on my face after a drunken fight, i took him back and after a few months he spat on my face and hit me again, remember when he's doin this hes calling me names and putting me down. he swore after the last time that he would never do it again, well, 2 nights ago he grabbed me by the neck twice and threw me against the wall. i walked out and stayed in a hotel that nite, i came back home and i am currently sleeping in the spare room so i can decide wat i want to do, Things only happen when both of us are drinking. i love him so much and its totally out of character for him to act this way, he is so apologetic after things happen and swears he wont do it again, what should i do, i dont want to leave him but i dont want to live my life this way. Please help

2007-02-22 06:25:11 · 36 answers · asked by TTC #1 With PCOS 3 in Singles & Dating

are we normal?
and are girls really interested in this all?

2007-02-22 06:25:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what I am asking is do you think (girls) you could tell if your boyfriend did anything like cheating? How could you tell? or not?

2007-02-22 06:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by shadegirl15 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a wonderfull marriage, but then suddenly we started having problems like all marriages do the first five years are the hardest, well we had barely made it thru our frist when she was fed up, she had said there had been alot of issues that made her decide to come to the point of a divorce after one year. I told her to give me a second chance and show her i can change and be the man i was suppose to be from the get go. So i started cooking, cleaning, paying bills, attending to the house hold more, being more caring and sweet to her. I stated working out, got a second job and even went back too school. It wasnt enough she decided that a seperation was good for us now, to think things over, i wanted her to stay and work it out at home, but nope. So she did not just move out, she bought a new place, and moved in with her sister that was living with us and her two kids, she said she did that because she wanted to help her sister out. Now im all by my self paying for the house.

2007-02-22 06:24:30 · 12 answers · asked by MelF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone, i feel really down right now and need some advice or tips on how to pull myselfo out of this mood im in,i recently moved home, got back with the guy i love, but things r goin downhill, i feel really insecure,dreamin his cheatin on me, look after him but he doesnt appreciate what i do, i just want a cuddle and to be told im beautiful but he is payin all his attention to his laptop and xbox.

we have been in love 7 years , altho not straight thru and we have both seen other people on the break ups i know he loves me and i love him.

I hardly see my friends anymore.my mum lives miles away and my dad is always down and upst or angry about something and is very bitter from mum leaving.

I do modelling, i know im not that bad just feel ugly, lonely and have bad annxiety at times, trouble sleeping and everything.

Need some advice or someone thats been here? i dont want another guy or a new relationship just want to stop feeling like an old housewife and like i am 22.:(

2007-02-22 06:23:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships