what I am asking is do you think (girls) you could tell if your boyfriend did anything like cheating? How could you tell? or not?
2007-02-22 06:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by shadegirl15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a hard one b/c usu you can tell if someone is cheating on you long term, but since this happened in Vegas (if, in fact, he did cheat) it is most likely that it would have been a one-time deal. You should be able to tell if he is getting phone calls/texts which he does not answer in front of you or is secretive about. Otherwise, unless he becomes less attentive to you or has contracted some std, I don't see any other way to tell.
2007-02-22 06:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by whattodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only tell tale sign I had was with a guy I was with for a long time. He cheated and the next time we had sex, he'd wear a condom and say it helped keep him up longer? Needless to say in the long run I figured it out. We were together 11 1/2 years.
If you trust your b/f and he went out with his friends, I wouldn't worry about it. Not EVERY man cheats. Unless you have a specific reason to think it, if you do, he probably did. Trust your instincts.
2007-02-22 14:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't obsess about it! the only way cheating is a major problem is he would prefer to be with another person on a regular basis instead of you and it is affecting your relationship and time together. If he has an emotional tie to someone else and calls them regularly just to talk instead of calling you, etc, then the relationship is in trouble.
If he loves you and wants to spend his time with you, who cares if he hammered some girl i Vegas he'll never see again. you want him to be happy and controlling him or being jealous won't do that.
You'll only drive yourself crazy if you are constantly worried about physical acts that mean nothing. It doesn't matter!
2007-02-22 14:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did cheat, he may seem a little more distant than usual.
Or he could feel guilty and kill you with kindness.
There's no certain way but if you honestly feel that he cheated on you, confront him.
2007-02-22 14:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by frozenpancake582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could be asking the same question...it all has to do with trust if you dont trust each other than mine as well break it off now because it will only get worse
2007-02-22 14:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes anyone can tell if a partner is cheating or that partner cheat on you...You know what you have so yes is easy...
2007-02-22 14:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt cheat, he got a lap dance and he didnt want to hear you *****, so he told you some shuit like it was boring right
2007-02-22 14:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by natchem1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋